tubajohn23
28 Clearwater, United States
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My self-summary
Update time! As time goes on, people change, and so must their OKC profiles! :)
Well, to be blunt, I am attracted to complexity. Perhaps it is because I live my life very simply. I go to work, play and listen to classical music, go out to eat with my sisters when I get the chance, and my chill time is usually invested in reading a book or sitting around watching obscure films.
I like to think that I have a complex mind, but it doesn't manifest itself behaviorally. I am apathetic when it comes to physical presentation, so my clothing/dress may not always be "kosher".
I don't have body mods, but I'm really attracted to people who do. I gravitate toward space-like things; anything to do with space travel, cosmic consciousness, ET life, feeling planet energies. I also find comfort in reading post-structuralist continental philosophy, when I get the chance. :P
I am sarcastic, emotional, loyal, selfish, loving, lover of nature and mother earth. I'm not a very exciting person, just in my head. O_o
There are several ways in which I deviate from the norm to the point where in makes people feel uncomfortable. For one, most people entertain possibilities while I believe in possible actualities.

Secondly, I am polyamorous and pansexual. I don't expect you to be, so likewise you should not expect me to be mono and straight.

I was born and raised by/with women so the only way I know how to interact with most anyone is as an equal. Meaning, I don't "play games". I'm very blunt and forthcoming and this can be off-putting to most people. I have absolute respect for people's boundaries so I will ask before I do anything, even a kiss.
Most times my demeanor can be described as austere and somber. My sense of humor is old-fasioned and revolves around very bad puns!(This is your warning!lol)
I really just want someone to share love and experiences with different people at the moment. I have little to no social life and hope to change that soon. Please feel free to ask me anything. I am an open book. :)
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working, living life to the fullest, and living/helping out with my sister and her husband. We are planning on moving to South Korea in a few years, so as far as deeply invested relationships go, I'm not looking for much. Unless you are coming with us of course.
I’m really good at
Tuba, cooking, ufo research, sex, sleeping, eating, loving nature and others, musical intuition.
The first things people usually notice about me
I like to smile. I'm very affectionate, attentive, and caring. I'm well-spoken, even though my grammar sucks ass. :P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything written by Michel Foucault, Alan Watts, great spiritual masters, or ufo authors. Love classic sci-fi films, star treks, star wars, aliens, ET, Cocoon(if you know what this movie is I will fucking marry you!), some older films.
I mainly enjoy classical music, romantic era, modern, impressionist.
Food: I'm getting into healing foods, macrobiotic, raw, vegan, ayurvedic. mmmm.... :)
The six things I could never do without
My sisters, indian food, critical thinking, love, nature(mother Earth), my computer. :P
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Society at large, current issues of the day, applying critical theory to blow politics off it's high-end ass.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either at home doing chores and practicing or Going to a karaoke bar, or watching family guy episodes online.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've had a vasectomy, so if you are interested in settling down and having children please look elsewhere.
You should message me if
You are looking for a good friend or a lover or just curious about me. Like I said earlier, I'm not looking for anything too serious, just fwb for now.
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