I lean more to the idea of an androgynous gender ideal. I like being a guy, but I am very feminine. And I enjoy walking that line.
Kissing and other things. But yeah...
Non "classical:" I will listen to almost anything. I like people like Coldplay, Muse, REM, Panic at the Disco, Frou Frou, Imogen Heap, Bjork, Vampire Weekend, and many more. I will listen to just about anything!
Food: Indian, Mexican, New Mexican, Italian, French, Chinese, Thai, and like music, you never really know what you like until you try new things. So I really like to try new things!
Movies: Sci Fi, The 5th Element, Amelie, and Cloud Atlas really my favorite movies, but Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Vampire Movies, Labyrinth, The Dark Chrystal.
Historical Movies, chic flicks/ romantic comedies. I like horror movies only because I think they are funny. I love foreign films, and even anime films.
Ever After, American Pie, Amelie, Howl's Moving Castle, Hocus Pocus, Amadeus, Red, Blue, White. Gay movies: Brokeback Mountain, Love! Compassion! Valor! And many more!
Books: Perfume, A Clockwork Orange, Jude the Obscure, A Heartbreaking work of Staggering Genius, Lord of the Rings, Gertrude Stein, Atlas Shrugged, The Satanic Verses, most sci fi.
I really just love to read, so mostly anything.