36 Dallas, United States
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My self-summary
I am a country boy living a city life. I could easily go off somewhere, to a log cabin, next to a body of water, with trees - majestic trees - and a german shepherd, grow crops, eat from the land, and read and write works of art all alone. This, to me, is beauty. At least one aspect.

I also enjoy some of the following with others:

Writing, breathing, discussing politics, pop culture, laughing until my tummy hurts, chewing the inside of my cheeks, being curious, performing acts that counter social norms, finding good sales, shopping on Amazon, Charmin Ultra in the blue package, Apple computers, musical instruments that require a reed (clarinets, saxophones), listening, having sex in my mind with the man I am going to be with someday, crunching ice, buying books that I'm interested in and not reading them, popping gum, helping the homeless, promoting queer youth acceptance, analyzing stuff, and convo's with wise people.

I am flawed, perfect, and endearing.

I also work intensely and purposefully; and I am vigorously passionate about social justice and dismantling various systemic forms of oppression.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a licensed professional counselor.
I’m really good at
getting people to open up and talk about themselves, writing, laughing, not talking about myself, being anxious, taking my multivitamin and Omega 3 each day, and picking out random red wines that end up tasting really awesome.
The first things people usually notice about me
is my skin tone, shaved head, and honest thoughts through expressive communication.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: things fall apart, invisible life, the seat of the soul, the noonday demon: an atlas for depression, prayers for bobby
Movies: the color purple, philadelphia, powder, a time to kill, glory, higher learning, poetic justice, the wiz, brokeback mountain, the family stone, the devil wears prada, sex and the city, unfaithful, the pursuit of happyness, angels in america, coffee date
TV Shows: walking dead, house of cards, the golden girls, all animal planet shows, various web-based shows on YouTube
Music: brahms, bruckner, beethoven, brandy, india arie, moive soundtracks, sigur rós, ambient, alternative rock, gospel
Food: the kind that tastes good
The six things I could never do without
1.) great sleep
2.) solid friendships
3.) laughter
4.) air conditioning
5.) thought-provoking conversation
6.) knowing my purpose
I spend a lot of time thinking about
group dynamics, the arbitrary nature of life, my purpose for being born, finding a mate, adopting a kid(s), love in all of its' forms, and sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
working, having dinner with friends, or at the gym.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is that I sing in the car as if I'm performing before thousands upon thousands of people. It's quite a show to see.
You should message me if
are honest, sincere, have a career, care about people (not self-centered), confident (not cocky).