22 Brooklyn, United States
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My self-summary
Before I get to the expected business, here's a priority for me at the moment: I'm very active, but have almost no athletic friends. I'm looking for a real bro (straight/bi/gay/whatever) that I can play sports and train with, and hang out with no agenda other than brotherhood. I'm a cool headed adrenaline junkie who's loyal, straightforward, and isn't into shady business. Hit me up if you want to be friends.

Cultural nomad who loves new experiences and beautiful things. As an ex-military man who invests substantially in physical activities, as well as a liberal arts hermit, I'm innately curious and consider myself well balanced. An old soul who enjoys the company of those who have their priorities in check. Honesty and communication are important to me in any form of relationship.

I believe in the importance of values. "Tough but kind" describes what I aspire to be, as well as the kind of man I'm looking for. Constantly working to grow stronger in all aspects and to find out what works for me in the pursuit of power and happiness. I'd love to meet someone to share the road with.
What I’m doing with my life
A variety of arts, ranging from performance (rock music, acting) to the creative side of the spectrum (writing, songwriting, filmmaking).

A variety of physical activities: strength training, trail running, kickboxing, wrestling, obstacle racing, (soon: gymnastics).

I touch upon all of these things in some way every week. That said...I'm more likely to be busy than bored.
I’m really good at
Bleeding all over the place
Not noticing that I'm bleeding all over the place
Watching horror films
Reacting to crises
Reacting to creases
Eating a ton of mad spicy food
Being a good friend (but not so good at making them)
Laughing at nothing
Objective critiques
Tanking through stuff
The first things people usually notice about me
You tell me.

My accent wavers between English, American, Welsh, Irish, and Cesspool (sometimes mid-sentence).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Ask me. I love literature.

Movies: Alien series, Mad Max: Fury Road, Guardians of the Galaxy, Captain America: The Winter Soldier, Gravity, Skyfall, space films, horror, Jason Statham, Guillermo del Toro

Shows: Archer, Bob's Burgers, Happy Endings, American Horror Story, Supernatural (five seasons ago), Daredevil

Theatre: Observe the Sons of Ulster Marching Towards the Somme

Games: Anything by Bethesda, Bioware, and Bungie

Music: Red, Linkin Park, Dead by Sunrise, Breaking Benjamin, Disturbed, Chopin, Saint-Saens

Food: Red meat, potatoes, popcorn, rum n raisin ice cream, mango, pudding, anything spicy - the spicier the better

Bryan Callen makes me laugh a lot.
The six things I could never do without
Punching Bag
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Book plots, the future, the universe (and parallel ones), beauty and violence, melancholic literature, classical history, human behaviour, quantum mechanics, fight choreography, imaginary music videos, transcendence, the military, visuals (prisms, colours, light), death, people I love, humanity, workout routine rehash, food.
On a typical Friday night I am
Being a spontaneous misanthrope. Usually prefer a quiet night to recharge, play video games, write, or laze in bed, watching horror movies and eating takeout.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My ideal guy doesn't hold back when we spar, wants to run desert races and camp in the woods with me, but is also cool with domesticity ala cooking dinner together at home.
You should message me if
You're a tough guy with a good heart. Funny is a plus. I prefer men who are strong and independent, who take care of their body, are good at what they do and a little evil on the inside. Humility, intelligence, generosity, and ambition are all pretty big turn-ons. If being physically active is a chore for you, it's not likely that we will be a match. On the other hand, if you're a creative intellectual as well as a soldier type, we'll get along a lot better than fine.

From experience, I don't really mesh well with people make assumptions or are overtly opinionated. I think being genuinely kind is rare, and being just nice is unnecessary. I also don't really club. I'd rather explore the city and do new things than get drunk.

I wish BroFinder was a real thing. I don't care what your sexual orientation is, as I'm not looking for any specific thing. If you fit the bill, we'll get along nicely.