Once, while in Newcastle, I went to a pub and ordered a beer with this description. I ordered it because I thought it represented well the way I see myself. The description went on to say:
"While dark, rich and decadent this beer finds balance and subtlety in its lightness and drinkability. Great for matching with sweeter dishes and intense desserts."
Which, again, I would be inclined to say fits me very well.
So, a decadent behaviour without the lavish and the wasteful indulgence while maintaining an air that is both mysterious and difficult to read is what I'll use to describe myself here. A man of inner turmoil and conflict with a childish fascination for people, life and the world. Others have called me genuine, compassionate, shy, silent and slightly stubborn. "Still waters run deep." is an expression that has been thrown at my person more than once which I think is a good thing? :P
Truth is I'm not good at describing myself and I've probably re-written this summary several times trying to convey the most accurate image of who I am. Of the 16 personality types (if you care about such things) I'm apparently a INFP-T. Idealist? Calm, reserved and shy? Diplomat? Potential to be led into isolation from lack of understanding from others? Sounds about right!
What I plan on doing in the near future is to live as much as I can and be happy, possibly with people who inspire me to be the person I wish I could be. I want to travel to far away and exotic places, go on adventures and careless road trips around the world, do outrageous and regrettable things that I can tell to my kids one day "You shouldn't do that. Your daddy did it but regrets it and you shouldn't make the same mistakes!"
A Saturday movie night with pizza and popcorn has been an essential part of my weekly routine for many years so I've seen a lot of movies from the most famous ones to the most obscure independent titles. My watchlist now contains more than 500 movies and yet I always feel like I have nothing to watch! So it's hard to pick but I re-watch on a regular basis include Once, The Garden of Words, Road to Perdition, Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels, The Big Lebowski, movies by Wes Anderson, any movie from the Studio Ghibli. I love animation movies so I find myself watching those the most.
I'm usually not very up to date with series but some of the newer ones I've watched and liked include Game of Thrones, Orange is the New Black, The Man in the High Castle and Hannibal. The I just re-watch a lot of older shows like Spaced, Black Books, Scrubs, Fawlty Towers, Seinfeld, South Park and Twin Peaks.
I am and will always be a metalhead at heart even though you'll often catch me listening to other genres of music. I like Jazz, Blues, Folk, Classical, some Electronica, Indie, maybe some Pop. I'll just stick with the cliché "As long as it's good..." to make it easier for me :P Will give you a mixtape if you ask nicely!
I wish humans could survive exclusively on biscuits and cakes because that's all I'd be eating. I'm just not a foodie and trusting my cooking is a risky business although it hasn't killed me yet. I'm not vegetarian but respect people who are and I'd happily get more into a healthier lifestyle but you'll need to understand that I need a nice juicy steak from time to time :P
Family & Friends
Sweets & Chocolates
A comfortable pair of shoes
Might be a byproduct of getting old but I also spend a lot of time thinking about my childhood, the things I've done and miss and the things I haven't done and wish I had. There's still plenty of time right?
I'd be inclined to say "Come one, come all!" but I feel like there're a few things that we should get out of the way if we're to get along well:
I'm not remotely interested in casual sex or temporary hook ups. Nothing against it but it's not what I'm looking for at the moment.
I don't mind meeting people after just a while after the first messages but if we do I'd rather we concentrate on just having relaxed fun out without the pressure dating outs into things.
I don't ghost anyone who writes to me so I would really appreciate if you didn't do it to me. It's rude and If for any reason you wish to cease writing please have the decency to tell me instead of starting to ignore me. I'm a big boy, I can take rejection :P
And by the way, I've cast away my VIP status to live my life as a humble man. I'm not A-Listed is what I'm trying to say so I cannot see who leaves a like. I really appreciate them but a mere "Hi! How's it going?" is also very much appreciated. I hate formalities and etiquette so just jump right in there and talk to me like you've known me for ages :)