uhanam
28 London, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
I've always seen my self as a unique person the likes you couldn't find anywhere else on Earth but the truth is probably that I'm as normal and boring as they come. I don't have an intriguing hairstyle, I don't have tattoos or piercings, I don't believe I have any special talents (not for lack of interests mind you!), I don't live an alternative lifestyle that forces me to fight grizzly bears and eat what I find under a rock...I'm just an ordinary bloke.

Of the 16 personality types (if you care about such things) I'm apparently a INFP-T according to a quiz I just did. Idealist? Calm, reserved and shy? Diplomat? Potential to be led into isolation from lack of understanding from others? Yeah, I'd say that strikes home. Apparently there are only 6% like me out there did you know that? Hurrah for being unique!

But not all is good about me which proves you should take everything with a pinch of salt. I do tend to be moody and melancholic and easily influence by the world around me. I'm a dreamer but that just means I've lost sense of what I want. I try to seek answers but I find that I end up with more questions. I can also be a bit stubborn as I've been told by people who got to know me well.

I hope this caught your attention and you'd be interested in getting to know me a bit better. Despite my shy and reserved demeanor I'd definitely an open book you must first get me off the shelf.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently living in London where I'm working as an architect for a small company. Other than that the usual: trying to find happiness and contentment, trying to find meaning in life. Dreaming...
I’m really good at
Overthinking my problems, remaining silent for long periods of time, procrastinating, making a decent beef stir-fry, imagining fictional dialogues that I will never have and having my head in the clouds.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't read as much as I could/should but I love to. Some of my favourites include the Dune series which I'm currently reading, The Saxon Chronicles by Bernard Cornwell and All the Light We Cannot See. I read to escape so as long as it is fiction and has an interesting plot and likable characters I'm hooked

I watch too many movies to be able to pick one. Some I re-watch on a regular basis include Once, The Garden of Words, Road to Perdition, Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels, The Big Lebowski, movies by Wes Anderson, any movie from the Studio Ghibli. I love animation movies so I find myself watching those the most.

I don't watch many TV shows to be honest but I like Game of Thrones, Orange is the New Black, The Man in the High Castle, Spaced, Black Books, Fawlty Towers, Seinfeld, South Park and Twin Peaks.

I am and will always be a metalhead at heart even though you'll often catch me listening to other genres of music. I like Jazz, Blues, Folk, Classical, some Electronica, Indie, maybe some Pop. I'll just stick with the cliché "As long as it's good".

Food is that thing I don't place too much thought on but if I had to choose one lazy food to have almost everyday I'd go with pizza. Who doesn't like pizza?
The six things I could never do without
An escape from life
Family & Friends
Good memories
Sweets & Chocolates
Music
A reason to feel melancholic
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The complexity of life and trying to understand myself and where things are headed.
On a typical Friday night I am
Chilling at home, maybe watching something or playing a game or siting in the dark gazing melancholically outside with a cup of tea in my hand and keeping the moon company.
You should message me if
I'm not looking to date anyone at the moment but If you're looking for a friend and you'd like to get to know me a bit better and eventually hang out the drop me a line here or we can chat somewhere else if you prefer :)
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