28South Bend, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a big nerd who likes video games and books. I've spent the last year getting into lifting weights and getting in shape, which obviously contrasts with my other sedentary hobbies. Life is about balance, apparently.

I'm cool with time alone, but I need some more friends to hang out with and possibly date, so that's why I'm here.

I'm looking for someone who is into fitness and nerdy shit. I like to say funny things, sometimes dumb funny things, so I need a partner in crime for those antics. I work evenings at a gym. It's nice getting to know people, and it helps me stay motivated. I work on creative endeavors during the day to keep me sane.

I miss summer porch drinking with the neighbors. I live with my older siblings, so we hang out a lot, play board games, Cards Against Humanity, and Super Mario World.

I'm a loner who enjoys time by myself but lately I've been wanting to get back into dating. I'm looking for a partner that will work out with me, go on walks, go to the beach when the weather gets nice, isn't afraid of grungy bars and hanging out downtown, and enjoys a little porch drinking.

I'm not super into binge watching Netflix, but if I do watch something it'll be right as I'm going to sleep. Fair warning, I like anime and I'm not ashamed of my nerdiness.

I know how to play guitar, bass, and a little piano. I went to school for music for a year before switching to English. Books are my first love, but I almost got a rock history music minor. Ask me about The Beatles - I don't love anything as much as I love The Beatles, except maybe Bob Dylan.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, working out, getting healthy, establishing a portfolio of creative projects, and just trying to figure things out.

Planning on grad school at some point.
I’m really good at
I've got a list of band names on my phone that my friends and I have made up.

I'm a p good listener. I spend most of my waking hours hearing about other peoples' problems, so I'm not afraid to talk about personal issues.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've got a couple of facial scars from childhood - I was apparently left alone a lot.

My hair and facial hair fluctuate a lot. Sometimes I'm big beard-shaved head, other times I'm baby face-long hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Hemingway, Vonnegut, Tolkien. Self-help and health books.

Music: The Beatles, Bob Dylan, 90s rap, 80s rock.

Film: Mobster movies, Mean Girls, Westerns, psychological horror, 10 Things I Hate About You, Zodiac.

TV: Lost, Archer, King of the Hill, American Horror Story.

Food: Mexican food, coffee, and scotch + soda.

Video games: Nintendo games (Mario, Zelda, and Kirby), Deus Ex, Dark Souls, shooters, RPGs, fighting games.
Six things I could never do without
Physiology, safety, belonging, esteem, self-actualization, and The Beatles.

And maybe a fan for when I go to bed?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Creative things, fighting games, my job, fitness.
On a typical Friday night I am
At the bar with friends or at home playing video games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love Taylor Swift and I am human garbage.
You should message me if
If you lift, drink, play video games, don't smoke, and have a job.

Maybe you just want to have fun, stupid conversations with someone?
The two of us