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My self-summary
You wouldn't believe me if I told you! ;) And this doesn't mean you message me and ask me to tell you. Tired of that line already.
What I’m doing with my life
Figuring it out, mostly. Whilst constantly asking myself this very same question.
I’m really good at
Pushing limits
Talking myself into/out of things
Flaking out :P
Technology-related things (non-geeks think I'm a geek and geeks might agree I'm not completely incompetent around a a computer)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Completely at random and you have to figure out what's what:

Toni Morrison, Joan Baez, Friends, Outlander (both the books and the show), Orange in the New Black, Harry Potter (ew, not the movies), Simon and Garfunkel, Inside Llewyn Davis, seafood of all kinds (the weirder the better), Turn Me On, Goddammit!, KT Tunstall, The Bell Jar (and just anything by Plath), Maqbool, Virginia Woolf, Virginia Woolf, Virginia Woolf! Amy Winehouse, Mohiner Ghoraguli, The Beatles, Solaris (the original), can't figure out if I love or hate Kubrick but am irresistibly drawn to him, Rilke, Community, Chekhov, Ilayaraja, folk music of all kinds, Satyajit Ray (especially his short stories), Haruki Murakami, good filter coffee (strong and just a hint of sweetness), Thai red curry... Did I mention Virginia Woolf? :P

tl;dr: tl;dw
Six things I could never do without


The internet

Very strong beliefs, or the ability to reach them

Emoticons :P

Poetry--both the writing and reading of it, my favourite form of therapy!

And, at the risk of sounding completely corny, love--the security of old, deep love and the excitement of butterflies-in-the-stomach kind of new love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1) A lot of depressing things that have no answers.
2) A lot of fun things that require more creativity
3) Why Indians choose the "Asian" ethnicity on Okc instead of "Indian" :P And no, wise guy, don't try to tell me Okc is racist enough to call Native Americans "Indians".
4) Starting a blog/twitter handle exclusively for the weird/ridiculous things people here have said to me, from "You're a bitch" (totally out of the blue) to "Hi, I'm pregnant with your baby!"
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably out getting hammered. By "hammered", I (probably) mean drunk. Or curled up with a book, feeling antisocial. On a date. Online. Watching a movie. Trying out crazy outfits/makeup with friends. Well, Friday nights. Who can say?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My bark is worse than my bite. Although my bite is pretty awesome ;)
You should message me if
You know what?

DON'T message me asking for a blowjob, bitching about your girlfriend and how she doesn't satisfy you sexually (true story, bros). In fact, don't bitch to me at all about women I don't know. You'll be forever labeled in big bold letters (in bright red) as MISOGYNIST in my book, and I will block you.

Message me if you respect women as human beings.

DON'T message me, and then message me again, and again, and again, because I haven't replied. If I don't respond to your first message, it's probably because I haven't logged in for a while and my inbox is flooded with requests (yeah, sorry, gents, that's what it's like to be a woman on this site :P) and I haven't read yours yet. Or maybe I have and I'm not interested.

Message me if you think I'm interesting and if you're ready to deal with someone just disappearing on your for short periods of time initially.

And yeah, don't worry, at the end of the day, I'm pretty good at weeding ;)
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