45La Spezia, Italy
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My self-summary
DISCLAIMER: Don't take things too seriously! :-)

I hate writing profiles and generally I don't read other people profile (recent note: over time I ended up writing a long one LOL!).
Rather than reading a profile, I like to discover and know "a person in person"...through conversation.
When you meet people around, in the streets, at a bar, at a grocery store, at a club, where ever... they don't go around with their profile written in their chest...
I am sorry I am not into this profiling thing, so please don't get disappointed if I don't read yours.
I believe there's is a magic in a person attracting you and you discover the universe behind a person bit by bit...
People, although might use a Website or an App to connect to other people, are not like products on Amazon of which you read a Product Description and Customer Reviews.
*NOTE: my pictures are not cut-off... I think it's a problem with the app on certain phones, for instance the website works perfectly. Try it!

I am 100% Italian and live in Italy, but I travel to US few times a year. Also I plan to fully relocate to Charlotte in late 2017! (if Trump permits :-) )

*NOTE: I answered most questions on OKC loooong time ago, some things might have changed over time... don't take it too serious! IT IS JUST A GAME! Com'on! ;-)

*NOTE2: If you think profiling on dating site is everything, please just skip and look up the next one...the most stupid thing I can hear is: "We are not a match because OKC says our % is low". SERIOUSLY?!?!

*FUNNY NOTE: the other day a person asked me, were you serious when you answered this question????: "If a significant other told you that they had two-way communication with the spirit of a dead relative, would you believe them?"
........YES!!! LOL

*FUNNY NOTE2: a day I had a date with a girl, after few minutes she told me: "Hey, you know what? You always smile and have a wonderful smile! It's a nice surprise!".
I replied: "Oh Thank you! But why you did not expect that?"
She said: "Because there's not a single picture in which you smile!"
I ended: "Oh Funny, I never thought about that. Simply I don't smile in pictures because I am a genuine person, I smile when I naturally and spontaneously feel like to, generally it's not in front of a camera taking a selfie...a smile is a way to express and communicate, unfortunately communicating with a camera is not really my strength, I prefer to communicate with people. Bear in mind pictures ARE NOT people, but just their representation, like a profile on a dating site..."
Believe it or not.... she is still my friend... :-)

If you could make it reading this till point, you should be scared enough to drop the ball :-) But also if you have been able to read so much... you're probably intellectually above the average ;-)
What I’m doing with my life
Working... Travelling... Working and Travelling!
Ah yes... forgot to mention... I work a lot and I travel a lot.
But mostly I enjoy my life, which is the best gift I was given, most people - for some reason - just don't get it and they prefer to "exist" rather than "living" (see Oscar Wilde...)
I’m really good at
I am sorry... you gotta discover it! ;-)
No product description on my profile!
The first things people usually notice about me
WTH! At your age with all that black and thick hair??? Do you wear a wig???
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book: Perfume: The Story of a Murderer - Patrick Süskind
Movie: A Clockwork Orange - Stanley Kubrick
Show: uhm... I don't care much about TV shows and TV in general... the cultural level is generally not that exciting, but I liked Breaking Bad
Music: Shock In My Town & La Cura - Franco Battiato
Food: too hard to answer... I like so many and continuously exploring! But only high quality stuff.
Six things I could never do without
1) My Brain and Autonomy of Thought
2) Fun Fun Fun
3) Wine & Espresso
4) Passion
5) People who can blow my mind (where are they?!?!)
6) *** CENSORED ***
(I am not a "physical" person, but denying it's in the top 6 would just be hypocrisy).

1) Junk Food
2) Banality and superficiality
3) Violence
4) Conformism
5) Injustice
6) Ignorance
.... can I add a 7th?...
7) Vulgarity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where do we come from and were are we going to... but end up thinking we just live the present.
"Men are governed by lines of intellect, women by curves of emotion" --- James Joyce
"All the reasonings of men are not worth one sentiment of women" --- Voltaire
"Being a woman is a terribly difficult trade since it consists principally of dealings with men” --- James Joyce

.....Please stop the flip-flop insanity!, flip-flops are the best contraceptive ever! :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Happy Hour "Movida" thoughtless drinking or.... at home "meditating" about the meaning of the world. Sometimes the two extremes meet somewhere...
(NOTE: this is a joke! Recently a girl told me we are not compatible because I "meditate" LOL!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The only private thing I am willing to admit is that I will never admit my most private thing.
You should message me if
- You are curious and passionate about life and human nature and want to make the most of a moment, enjoy the present and not worry too much about the future because we live the present
NOTE: this does not mean living day-to-day without a future vision!
- You don't plan or control your emotions, you believe relationships start with "connecting" and you are open to any any further option ranging from spending a hour together drinking a beer to spending the rest of your life with a person (and all the in-between options). Doors to happiness should never be closed.
- You want to validate Italians are not like they are depicted in The Godfather Saga :-) Also you want to confirm "Real Italians" are not like "American-Italians" :-)
- You want to validate if all rumors about Italians are true or just rumors! Just kidding LOL!
- Lastly... Be aware that I reply to any message because I am a very polite gentleman... that does not mean I am willing to merry anyone I reply to! :-) (Though if I found the woman of my life, I would merry her tomorrow...)
The two of us