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My self-summary
Born in Boston Mass, younger life in Maracaibo Venezuela and then Bogota Colombia.

A soul mate is someone to whom we feel PROFOUNDLY connected, as though the communicating and communing that takes place between us were not the product of intentional efforts, but rather a divine grace. this kind of relationship is so important to the soul that many have said there is nothing more precious in life.

I'm a nurture by nature, we all have been BURNED over and over but with each day a new leaf will grow. I'm an spontaneous person, heat of the moment, go with the flow....... or just at home content reading " Calvin and Hobbes " with a glass of milk and oatmeal raisin cookies.

I HATE DRAMA, ARGUING, happiness is what counts the most.


I'm in the process of repairing my baby grand piano. i'm not a great piano player, " I have an upright piano as well, she is the one that works :)"

Is it better to go out to dinner with friends or have friends come over and help make dinner? I prefer having friends come over.

Im doing some MAJOR RENOVATIONS to my home and im learning how to build my own kitchen cabinets. THANK GOD I HAVE KNOWLEDGE IN WOOD WORKING!!!! and thank you YOU TUBE :)

If you see a person in need will you help? I DO.
would you let me (us) be late because I was helping someone on the road in need? someone that needed my help.
that was a lesson learned from a past experience, its important for me to know that I can trust in you on what I believe its important for me. I would do the same to you.

If single people are a dime a dozen, where is the penny that I am looking for?

I believe in courtesy in every form :)

there is a song that I heard in Pandora one night as I was resting my eyes, by the band " Edward sharpie and the magnetic zeros" the song is titled, Home. "Home is where ever I am with you." what is your opinion about this song?
What I’m doing with my life
One college degree is not enough these days " I have a degree in construction engineering and I`m back in school for my RN degree:) I graduated with a Bereavement degree Dec, 2011, to complement my RN" and currently i'm working for Hospice. Its such a REWARDING experience. The best part of this is that tomorrow I know i'll make a difference, I look forward everyday for tomorrow. can you say that about your work?
I also work for the American Red Cross, over 13 yrs as an instructor in lay rescuer, Professional Rescuer, Pet CPR/1st aid, basic 1st aid, Wilderness 1st aid and instructor training for Lifeguarding.
In the summer time "free time" I`m a whitewater river guide. fun job to get away from the city and enjoy nature, No tv, no cell phone, no internet. Just the trees, the river, the stars the moon, and AWESOME COMPANY :

I am a person that believes in helping others in anyway possible as shown with what I have done and doing in my life. money can get you anything, but the satisfaction, the thrill, the gentle hand comforting a lost soul, that is something money cannot buy. From my earliest memories, I remembered going to a birthday party and all of us at the time" little kids" were underneath the pinata awaiting for the toys and when they fell to the ground, the rush to grab as many as possible began. When it was all done, I looked up and notice that one little boy " no idea whom he is" had none. I approached him and gave him all that I had without question, I turned to look back at my mother and I notice her crying. she said to me. You have a great heart. little did I understood on what I did that night, but that compassion carries with me everyday till I take my last breath on this earth.
Be kind to others and to yourself, practice a random act of kindness everyday, you will never know when a small act can mean the world to others. Someday a stranger will help you :)
I’m really good at
hmm, well a lot of things.
lets figure it out together instead of me typing it and you reading it, NO FUN that way, right?

I do try my best, some times I win, sometimes I lose. but at the end of it all I can say is that I tried.
The first things people usually notice about me
good energy :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fav Book : Nursing manuals
Movies: GOONIES!!!! and about another 100
Shows: to many!!
Music: when im cleaning my home " BIG BAND AND SWING!", during rush hour " classical ", driving on a windy road "TECHNO", while speeding " NOTHING" got to focus on the road ;)
Food: i have tried a lot of things that would probably make people regurgitate!
Six things I could never do without
!) tooth brush " never had a cavity"
2) my cars!! sad note, my truck as of Nov 3rd 2012 has died :(
3) my best friend "i know her for almost 24 years"
4) food
5) coffee " I'm Hispanic" blood type is Java!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
well NOT a lot but what everyone thinks on a daily bases! bills, relationships, taxes, the weekend, is the person in front of me with the right blinker going to make a LEFT turn?, what to eat tonight, did i left the coffee put on? etc hope that you smiled at this comment ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Not bar hopping nor getting intoxicated " fun times in the early 20`s"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had. Close your eyes and think of a place that you would like to be with, who has your heart, mind and soul. Just holding each other as the sun sets and the moon begins to rise(or where ever you want it to be), knowing that the person you are with, truely makes you happy and that you are not afraid to show him/her how you feel. just seating there in silence and knowing exactly what the other person is thinking, it makes me want to hold that someone even closer to my heart. In order to have a succesfull relationship you need to put out of your mind any lessons learned from previous relationships because if you carry a sensitivity or fear with you, you won t be acting freely and you won t let yourself be really known.
You should message me if

The gentle warm breeze that once flowed through the leafs that filled the inner tree started growing stronger and stronger, but no longer the leafs that once held on to the branches proudly could stand such Gail. All the leafs felled to the ground until the branches were bare. Time passed by with no hope in sight the inner tree gave up. The inner tree found new strength and grew a new leaf, now there are two.........

An original work by me :)
The two of us