varian
28Poole, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
Like a lot of people looking at internet dating, I'm a pretty shy person. However, once the barrier of my shyness is crossed, I can be pretty extroverted. People who know me tend to call me weird- in a loving way- because I have a tendency to speak whatever stream of consciousness I'm having. I have a tendency towards dirty or dark humour.

I enjoy reading, writing, painting, terrible innuendo and various computer games, as well as sitting in with a glass of wine or just hanging out.
What I’m doing with my life
I just finished an English Lit degree at the University of Kent and am back home in Bournemouth with the daunting proposition of "being an adult." Currently working a surprisingly fun office job while I save for bigger things.

I've returned to Bournemouth after a few years away to find I no longer know that many people in the area, so I'm also looking to find some new friends of any genders with similar interests.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh- I'm a bit eager to please, but I also have a disarmingly honest nature that can either be a blessing or a curse haha
The first things people usually notice about me
I am kind of a huge dork.

I'm more comfortable talking about World of Warcraft (Other favourites are Cities: Skylines and Don't Starve) than Gogglebox and I know more about RuPaul's Drag Race than I do...whatever else is cool. IDK.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love pretty much anything fantasy when it comes to books- Robin Hobb, A Song of Ice and Fire and pretty much anything which enables some good old fashioned escapism.

Music...I have pretty varied tastes. From Patrick Wolf to Taylor Swift with a detour through American mullet rock (think ACDC, Kansas and Led Zep) with a sprinkling of folk. I'll listen to whatever, by and large.

I don't watch a lot of tv and prefer to just browse Netflix (....and chill.) or skim around on youtube watching Let's Plays.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Recently my obsession has been these three nerdy brothers called The McElroys who do a million and one hilarious podcasts- if you're about that good good MBMBAM life let's talk ASAP. *beep beep* great job. Also, god help me I am all about Hamilton lately. Let's be bffs.

and also just how cute puppies are.
On a typical Friday night I am
Quite possibly at work- I work pretty lame-o shifts. But I'll just as likely be at home, playing a computer game which hasn't been cool for five years, watching youtube or animoos or listening to The Adventure Zone...

But I guess I could also be hanging out at a friend's place, drinking wine and playing games.

Or fighting crime. Idk, one of the three.
You should message me if
you think I'm interesting and think I'll think you're interesting too. If you like slightly geeky (in the best possible sense) things, I will probably love you. I don't mind my guys to have a little meat on their bones, or to be skinny. I like my ladies with curves and a wicked smile, but really, I like all shapes and sizes, so long as you have a good personality and are kind, honest and patient, because I take a little while to open up sometimes.
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