62Menlo Park, United States
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My self-summary
Just poking around on this site, mostly for the silly tests. :-) I'm intrigued by the choices the OK Cupid engine makes for me.

I'm in the process of ending a very long marriage. My kids are grown and on their own; nevertheless, we are very close. I have a fantastic flexible career, make my own hours, and am financially independent. I'm not looking for another spouse but wouldn't mind having someone in my life to see now and again and take on a road trip.

I am smart, have a good sense of humor, and am a sports nut.

And I know the photo is fuzzy. That's on purpose. Sharper photo may be available upon request, but I won't post it here. Sorry. (Sorta.) :)
What I’m doing with my life
--- reworking how I fuel myself, physically and emotionally. Since the photo above was taken, I've lost 30 pounds.

--- becoming a collegiate sports official.

--- writing yet another book.
I’m really good at
Playing and coaching volleyball, writing, cooking, traveling the world.
The first things people usually notice about me
I smile a lot, and I'm in pretty good shape (especially considering the number of trips I've taken around the sun). Dogs and children, for reasons I have yet to understand, follow me around.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Historical fiction and science fiction (time travel is very intriguing and combines both of those), comedies, classic rock, meals made from scratch.
Six things I could never do without
Intellectual challenges, physical affection, dark coffee, red wine, travel, hanging out with my kids.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What to do with the second half of my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
not sure what a typical Friday night looks like. I might be at a game, or a concert, or cooking up a feast for family and friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is that my life is stupidly complicated these days.
You should message me if
... you're not spouse-hunting but you're also not just adding notches to your bedpost.

... you're open to learning new things and going on adventures.

... you're smarter than the average bear.
The two of us