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My self-summary
Sometimes I wonder if I am defined only by my interests, which largely consist of video & board games, movies, fantasy novels, scripted television, and the occasional comic. Or that I'm defined by how I like dudes and musicals and brightly colored things. Or that I am a four-eyed perpetual learner who sometimes has problems speaking clearly. Or that I am a myers-briggs INTJ. Or that I'm a cute lazy guy who loves to take naps. Or that I am a vegan with a bs BS from UCD.

Do these things sum me up? I think at this point I've gathered enough INT/WIS to say "No."
What I’m doing with my life
I work in HR for the city. I play a lot. I'm trying to up my wisdom skill so I can be a sage old man one day.
I’m really good at
Board games. Analysis and problem solving. Casting "spells." I'm a jack of all trades.
The first things people usually notice about me
I would imagine it would depend on the context. I can be shy (around strangers), cute (in the right light), bossy (when games are involved and I'm not keeping it in check), slow (when I am thinking things through), sharp (when I am confident), or aloof (sometimes it comes naturally) when first met.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music The Cranberries (and Dolores O'Riordan), Nellie McKay, Jason Mraz, Fun., Super Mario Galaxy soundtrack, musicals... I don't follow a lot of popular music but I enjoy what appears to me randomly. When the situation calls for headphones I usually either put on a random amazon music station or NPR One.

Movies Frozen, Earth Girls Are Easy, Hairspray (both versions, but I prefer the musical), Serenity, Pleasantville, Sky High, Mamma Mia!, The Sweetest Thing, cheesy gay movies (e.g. Were the World Mine), Bring it On, Pitch Perfect, 17 Again, more. Yes my movie tastes here appear to resemble a teenage girl - but I also watch/enjoy all sorts of movies.

Television Jessica Jones, Switched at Birth, Mindy Project, Star Wars: Rebels, Sailor Moon Crystal, Steven Universe, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Being Erica, The Legend of Korra, Futurama, The Librarians, all of the Star Trek spin-offs, Wonderfalls, Popular, Xena: Warrior Princess, Read or Die.

Books Favorite authors: David Eddings, Lynn Flewelling, JK Rowling, Philip Pullman, Rick Riordan, Lemony Snicket, Robin Hobb, Jim Butcher, Naomi Novak, Patrick Rothfuss. I kind of am in love with young adult science fantasy. I also read other things if it looks interesting, recommend something to me!

Food I am vegan, so that limits me a tiny bit. But other than that I am not picky at all and will eat pretty much anything. A few favorites: eggplant, hummus, mushrooms, black turtle beans, brussel sprouts, hot sauce, wild rice, leafy greens, bread.
Six things I could never do without
Games, hope, imagination, free time, sorcery, and that feeling you get when hot water runs down the back of your neck when you move right up against the nozzle in the shower.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whatever game / show / interest I am currently obsessing over. (Right now - Arkham Horror the Card Game)

Imagining that I can call lightning bolts like Storm.

What exciting thing I'll be doing today. (That is, exciting to me, not necessarily conventionally.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Board games (preferably ones designed within the last 20 years or so), other games, reading, drinks, a movie, a nap, going out(side), and/or whatever strikes my fancy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll admit anything. Shame is for chumps.
You should message me if
-you are looking for a relationship between equals;
-you see having fun as a priority, whether that is gaming/drinks/shows (like me), or whether you would give me an excuse to do more stuff outdoors or whatever it is that you are into;
-you aren't afraid to be a huge dork;
-you like what you see/read above; and/or
-you feel like it.
The two of us