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My self-summary
I'm an anti-natalist vegan and an atheist. If we have those three things in common we're off to a flying start. I'm also a software engineer, musician and digital artist.

My idea of a successful relationship is a state of mutual inspiration. I value wit, cultivation, finesse, eloquence, charm, gentleness, and respect. The way to my heart is through my ears.

I don't see "likes" so if you you're interested, message me.

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What I’m doing with my life
I've worn a lot of hats over the years: programmer, busker, guitar teacher, audio engineer, electronic musician, composer, dadaist, cult leader, graphic designer, author, lyricist, and visual jockey. Lately I'm studying climate science. It's fascinating but sobering. Sometimes I write about it here: http://metadelusion.blogspot.com/
I’m really good at
Weaving seemingly unrelated details into a coherent picture.
The first things people usually notice about me
My "Thank you for not breeding" T-shirt. Also my mad scientist hairdo.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Gravity's Rainbow, The Selfish Gene, O-Zone, Breakfast of Champions, Faggots, Howl, Our Plundered Planet, The Sixteen Satires, The Technological Society, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Cadillac Desert, The Shock Doctrine.

Movies: Eraserhead, Koyaanisqatsi, Providence, The Man Who Fell to Earth, THX 1138, Hearts and Minds, Network, Soylent Green, Being There, Liquid Sky, Clearcut, Man Facing Southeast, The Gods Must Be Crazy, Metropolis, Dr. Strangelove.

Music: Gary Burton, Stereolab, Masonne, Le Mystere des Voix Bulgares, Ali Akbar Khan, Oum Kalthoum, Wayne Shorter.

Food: I especially love beans, rice, and pickles. I would gladly eat rice and beans for breakfast (as they do in Costa Rica).
Six things I could never do without
Words. Humor. Joy. Learning. Sharing. Memory.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Rapid climate change (coming soon to a planet near you), C++, object-oriented design, piano technique, music theory, VJing, traveling, writing, history, philosophy, dada, antihumanism, voluntary population reduction, de-evolution, species holocaust.
On a typical Friday night I am
Coding, reading, writing, visiting friends, watching a movie, communing with my plants, soaking in a nice hot bath.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I never have to worry about blackmail. What a relief.
You should message me if
You're kind.
The two of us