41St. Catharines, Canada
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My self-summary
Im a 40yr old single bbw, looking to meet nice guys for casual dating possible leading to long term. Looking for my best friend, lover, soulmate. I know how cheesy is that! i love a guy that makes me laugh! i love spending time with that special someone! My last relationship was 15 yrs long with the last 4yr being on an off. I enjoy my time to myself but im now missing that special someone to share my day with someone to cuddle with! lets chat
What I’m doing with my life
taking every day as it comes! enjoying what life has to offer!
I’m really good at
im a good listener! and a good friend!
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile, my eyes, and that im a caring, compassionate person
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
avid book reader, favorite author Nicholas sparks. Enjoy movies mostly comedy, suspense, horror and action. I like cooki g new recipes favorite food is chicken. As for music i like r&b, soft rock, rock, alternative, dance, new country. Favorite artist is adele an Luke Bryan
Six things I could never do without
my family
my health
my friends
my body lotions lol
my cat
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend alot of time thinking about what i want in my future and how to reach my goals!
On a typical Friday night I am
im either spending time with friends or a quiet night at home watching a movie and enjoying a nice glass of wine
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
hmm i can be sensitive at times! i try to act like im strong all the time
You should message me if
If you are a nice, honest, respectful guy and you think we would have things in common then lets chat!

Please DO NOT Message me if.....
1) You do not live in CANADA
2) You are married (shame on you)
3) You are heavy drinker or drug user....not my scene
4) If you do not have profile pic (red flag you are hiding something)
5) For casual sex not interested

also I don't not like to be pressured into meeting if I respond or reach out to you then I want to get to know you an I'm not going to meet you right away. I'm not going to drop what I'm doing an go over to a stranger house....what are you thinking seriously. I am an independent woman who handles her own shit an I have a JOB so if I don't respond right away it means I'm working an more important thing then sitting on computer so don't give me attitude. If I sound like a bitch then don't waste your time messaging me. Oh an further more I don't stand in mirror every day all day taking pics to send to strangers if you are so concerned with pics an my measurements then you are not for me. An please I repeat please do not send me dick pics I don't care to see your junk. A dick is not a work of art they all look the same an I'm a grown ass woman I do not care to see your junk.

*********if we are chatting an I don't respond back right away chances are I fell asleep or something more important in life came up as I'm not glued to the computer all the time I do have life an committed. sad to say but I've received attitude with people rude comments saying I must like games an why leave guy hanging like seriously what is wrong with people. I'm starting to think this site is a joke. with that being said if you are on this site 24/7 something is wrong. Please if you feel need to be offended or neglected or played with because I'm not on here responding to your every message please don't waste your time or mine!
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