44Oceanside, United States
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My self-summary
Figuring out what to write is quite agonizing so here it goes...

The point has come in my life to start looking for a someone to build a life with. Though the years I've dated and learned a lot about myself from these experiences...especially after living in San Francisco for 10 years where dating is a minefield! I'm not putting much hope into this site but it couldn't hurt. However with the advent of social media, why are we less social? Are there people who don't have their face buried in a mobile device??

The past few years have proven a bit of a challenge but with fortitude, I've grown stronger and determined! My life is almost complete with my career, home, friends, family and sharing this with someone would be great! Also, no need to pick out china patterns!! I have my grandmothers china she kept for years and it looks beautiful!!

I've seen a few judgmental people on this site, so it is no wonder why these people are steadfastly single! If you don't like an answer to one of the questions I took time out to answer, deal with it and move on! No, I'm not bitter or jaded; I see things for how they are and I call people out on their B.S. I've waded through all the dating bullshit when I was younger, and I don't have time or patience for the childish shit guys seem to dish out...even at their age! Its time to get our acts together and build a life! That life doesn't include waiting for the next circuit party and wearing A&F shirts past 40!
What I’m doing with my life
I entered into a new career path recently which I should have done years ago! With my new career comes awesome responsibility, busy schedule, and never "the same thing twice" days! I'm a rock star in many young kids eyes!
I’m really good at
Hmmmm...so many things, where to start??

Cooking, taking care of my house, Costco shopping(!!), avoiding paying full retail price, martini making.
I could add more!
The first things people usually notice about me
My height! I come from a tall family and all my brothers are tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fleetwood Mac, Depeche Mode (Oh Lordy Yes!!), Of Monsters and Men, Peter Frampton, Blondie, Bastille, Foster the People, Goldroom, Washed Out, Berlin, Metric, to name a few. My tastes vary a bit.

If you think BeYAWNce, Lady Gaga, Britney Spears, Nicky Minaj, DiaRihanna, and the crumbling, geriatric, utterly pathetic "I gotta stay relevant so people like me", Madonna is good music, I won't judge; OK, I will a little! To use the word "artist" to describe these, over-hyped, marginally talented, corporate shills is a misnomer as best!
I do admit, I loved Madonna back in the 80's and early 90's when her music was good.

I've read quite a few books and the latest was Crashing Through: A True Story of Risk and Adventure and the Man Who Dared to See by Robert Kurson. An amazing read indeed!

When it comes to movies, I like the classics the best. Too many to list but the writing and the acting was far superior to the much of the garbage put out by Hollywood today.
Six things I could never do without
1. My family for starters. This seems like a cliché, but this is truly #1. My niece and 3 nephews (soon to be 4) are also included.

2. Friends. I don't see my friends often since they are spread out across Southern California and the country.

3. I know how to cook and do when I have the time.

4. My AMEX card! I never leave home without it!

5. My bed. This is what I look forward to after long days at work in 600 TC sheets!!

6. Cup of ambition. Yes, coffee! Oh Lordy Yes!! The sweet morning nectar of life!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Mainly, the future and what I can do to improve myself. I also think about meeting that special one who can bring much to the table. One who can inspire me, has ambition and give me that kick in the ass once in a while!!
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm probably working and if I'm not, I'm relaxing in front of the TV! I'm a homebody much of the time and enjoy it! Of course, sharing a nice meal with someone would be great if the opportunity comes around!
You should message me if
If you think are ready to meet someone, step off the dating carousel and start thinking of possibly building a life with another. This sound sappy and clichéd but fuck it!
The two of us