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My self-summary
Jeez, I never know what to say in things like this. Really do you expect me to summarize all of the different crazy aspects of myself in one little paragraph or something?

Well... I guess I like to think of myself as the average girl next door. Not exactly true I suppose, because I'm a little too much of a geek and a little too weird for most folks, but close enough. I tend to blend in, mostly because I don't put myself out there to be noticed. I'm too ambivalent for that.

My husband is bluecipher. I know that this site is mostly for singles looking to hook up, but I have a bunch of friends who are also on here who have met some really cool people, and thats all I'm looking for. More cool people to know, not more guys to screw. Sorry. If you ever meet us together, my friends would recommend you bring an insulin shot as we are disgustingly sweet together. What can I say? I'm stupid for him. :)

If you ask me if I am looking for a "relationship", yes, I may be a bitch to you because you've proven already that you either can't read or can't comprehend the paragraph above. Again, I repeat... NO OFFERS OF NSA SEX PLEASE!

I am definitely a Libra to my core, though I don't really care about your sign. Making decisions is really hard for me... whether its a little decision like what I want to eat for dinner, or a big decision like what kind of career I want to follow.

My wit tends to be a little dry, and for some people off-putting. I like to play a brat because its fun to get a rise out of people if I can.

I'm also a member of the SCA and spend a lot of time with my friends from that. http://www.scademo.com if you don't know what it is.

My sexuality is very important to me.... and not in the gay/straight sense. I'm a submissive/bottom in the BDSM lifestyle. Now I don't want you to think that means I'm an easy lay or that you can walk all over me, but its an important part of what makes me... me. If you're truly curious about it, I'm happy to be open and share my knowledge with you, but I don't tolerate condescension.

I decided to change my sexual preference answer here from straight to bi-. I'm not sure if I'm totally happy with that decision though, because I'm not really either. I consider myself heteroflexible, or heterosexual with bisexual tendencies. I'm not really into girls for the sex, but I like to be able to express my affection for female friends through hugs and kisses and cuddles that strays into territory that makes some straight people uncomfortable.
What I’m doing with my life
I'd like to say that I'm an ambitious go-getter who's making waves and climbing that ladder... but I'm not. I just take one day at a time and wait to see where it leads me. Kind of lazy, but I'd rather see what the world throws at me than miss something because of a single focus.
I’m really good at
Genealogy. Oops... I let my geek slip out again.

Really though, my Mom has done genealogy on our family for as long as I can remember, although all on her side of the family. A few years ago I wanted to look something up on my Dad's side, and now I've gotten hooked. I can literally spend days poring over census' and newspaper clippings looking for details, and I love it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have a lot of facets to my personality. When we first meet I'll be very shy and probably quiet. I've even been called "cold" on a first date, just because it takes me a while to warm up to new people. Once I do though, I'm very gregarious and friendly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I definitely have a not-so-secret addiction is to trashy romance novels. What else can I say? I'm a romantic, though I also like science fiction and history. The Mercy Thompson series is really getting me right now, which is a nice blend of romance and sci fi.

As far as movies go, I'm totally into chick flicks, comedies, dramas, documentaries, and musicals. Especially musicals. :) Suspense not so much, and horror is right out. Two of my all time favorite movies are The King and I (R&H version) and Save the Last Dance (with Julia Stiles and Sean Patrick Thomas).

My favorite two bands are Sugarland and VNV Nation. Country and EBM/synthpop/techno. Go figure. I don't discriminate (much) though, I'm also into anything from folk to hip hop. The only things I don't really like are reggae and most jazz.

I grew up really on a wonder bread kind of diet, so its only been recently that I've been experimenting with more and more kinds of food and don't really consider myself a picky eater...except when it comes to onions and mushrooms.

Getting bored yet? Sorry.. writing is not my forte.

I do have to admit that I watch a lot of TV. I love cop dramas like NCIS, NCIS:LA and Criminal Minds. When I'm feeling bad about my life I watch what I call trainwreck television, which is things like COPS and Worlds Dumbest ________. I also am into at least some of the reality shows. I LOVE So You Think You Can Dance. I also really like Project Runway, Design Star, and Face Off. Ohh... and I couldn't possibly forget Big Bang Theory. Hits a little close to home some days though. :) Also I'm a complete Trekkie who thinks the only redeeming qualities of Star Wars are John Williams, Jar Jar Binks, and Yoda.
Six things I could never do without
Laughing, family, friends, music, art, and technology.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Pretty things. Mostly art. And by art I mean music, drawing, dancing, expression, etc. I"m not generally talented enough to make it myself, but I enjoy enjoying it.

Diet and exercise... and how much I should do it but don't. We, and not even "diet" per se, but just eating better than I currently do. Less sugar and more Wii.

Dancing. How I wish I could be good, but at least I can sort of fake it (I mean real dancing like ballet or salsa, not shaking my booty at the club).
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm kind of a boring home-body. I'm either reading or playing World of Warcraft or catching up on my TV from earlier in the week. Or on the road headed out of town somewhere for an SCA event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have not seen most of the movies that most people think EVERYONE has seen. Some examples: E.T. (bits and pieces), The Godfather, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Breakfast at Tiffany's, etc.

I also did not put the bit about being submissive in this section because its not really "private" in the secretive sense. I'm very open about it and its an important part of my personality.
You should message me if
...you have read my whole profile. I hate answering questions that I've already answered if you bothered to read.

... you love country music.

...you have a motorcycle...I haven't been for a ride since I was like 9.

...you are interested in kink, steampunk, or the SCA.
The two of us