Gentlemen, when you meet her, if she is having problems with the people at work, her family, her neighbors and everyone is against her; She just might be the problem. You should RUN despite what she looks like or how unfair the world seems to be treating her. You can't save her from herself. All the women seem to get along with YOU in the beginning. Find a woman who gets along with others and you will find a woman who will get along with you in the long term.
Must still believe!
A LITTLE ABOUT ME:
Favorite song: "All of Me" by John Legend
I have an easy going warm personality.
I'm kind of girly, but not over the top.
I value niceness above most things.
Some of the things I enjoy are:
People watching (not judging)
happy hour with friends
church or bible study
snuggling watching TV
dancing by the fireplace
Romantic evenings at home
I can sport a little black dress or jeans and a t-shirt, I understand the social graces for each.
“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket- safe, dark, motionless, airless--it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.”
playing beat the ETA on my GPS
Getting along with others
Listening.....I find people fascinating.
Advocating for others
Being more Mary than Martha (if confused, check out Luke 10)
Movies: Drama, thriller, comedy, romance and some action and adventure movies, criminal minds, the show "Catfish" so don't you be one! :-)
Books: Non-fiction books mostly, the Bible (especially Paul's letters)
I Don't Have to Make Everything All Better, The World According to Mister Rogers, The Day You Were Born, Touching Spirit Bear, and books about self-awareness or personality profiles.
Music: I like a wide range of music. Car radio is most often on Contemporary Christian Music. I-Tunes playlist has a little of everything but some of my favorites are Adele, Jason Mraz, Train, Bruno Mars, Alicia Keys, Christina Aguilera, Evervescence. It also has 70s 80s and 90s stuff. Queen, John Lennon, Elvis, Michael Jackson, Prince, temptations, Lynard Skynyrd, George Jones, Dolly Parton.
I enjoy southern rock, rock and roll, soft rock (okay you get the idea)
I also enjoy pop, R &B , jazz, hip hop, country, new age, alternative, some classical, some rap (no gangsta rap or screamo).
Christ, family, and friends are not things, but I would not go without them either.
WISE WORD from Oliver Wendell Homes
"Don't flatter yourself that friendship authorizes you to say disagreeable things to your intimates. The nearer you come into relation with a person, the more necessary do tact and courtesy become. Except in cases of necessity, which are rare, leave your friends to learn unpleasant things from his enemies: they are ready enough to tell them."
How do people think? At what point is anyone fully satisfied with what they have and no longer ponder how much happier they would be only if............? Why do we do the things we do? How could life be made easier for the disadvantaged? Why do men's sex drives peak in their teens and women's in their 40's? Does God have a sense of humor? I'm convinced he does! Why can't our car door clickers have personal ring tones so I can find my dang car? How come we can cure cancer but not the common cold? How many meet and greets will it take before I feel something stir within me?
The rest you will have to wait to discover or read the 1,700 questions I've answered over that past 2 years. :-)
If you are under 40, I'm flattered by your interest, but it is a stretch for me to date men in their early 40's. I wish you the best of luck in your search.
Friendships of any age are always welcomed. (No sex talk)