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My self-summary
I feel as though theres no way I can contain myself in one "About Me" box. Unless, of course, said box was a refrigerator box because I can indeed fit myself in one of those.

I love going out even if its just to wander aimlessly in good company.

I sing nearly all the time. Seeing as my roommates haven't killed me after all these years I figure I'm not half bad.

I'm decidedly a chaos muppet. This ensures that my decisions always err on the side of absurd.

I'm dating awejam and NemesisEden, phenomenal men that I love fiercely with all my heart. We're poly so if you want in on the traveling circus that is my life you haven't missed the train!

(nb: being involved with me doesn't necessarily mean being involved with them. Hell, they're not involved with each other romantically/sexually. Though, to be fair, if you and I get along you would probably think they're pretty rad)

I am not into people who "require discretion".

I tend to fall for people, not gender. Queer is a better adjective than bi.

If you want to know more, just ask :)

I like nothing more than laughing and making other people laugh with me.

I can be packed and ready to go for an adventure on a moment's notice. Similarly, I keep a sleeping bag in my trunk 'cause you never know whose floor you might end up on.

I like tattoos, piercings, and other various ways in which people turn their bodies into works of art.

Given the chance, I can ramble on about nearly anything.
What I’m doing with my life
Traveling far and wide to hang out with awesome people.

Making a weird little home and family with my boyfriends and my metamour (aka the polycule). Yes, we're living the dream :D

Reading, knitting, baking (I'm always looking for people to help eat baked goods), learning to love video games, going to shows. I think homebrewing is the next project on the list.
I’m really good at
Talking in my sleep, or so I'm told. Often to hilarious effect.
The first things people usually notice about me
Short, curly haired, and typically loud.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I'll read nearly anything I can get my hands on, but I tend towards fiction.

I also love to read Dan Savage's column.

Movies: I'm pretty game for anything. However, I can be like a five year old when it comes to movies. If I'm watching one at home and I'm even a lil tired I'll just conk out on the couch.

Teevee: I haven't had cable for years and don't miss it because I am a pirate. I'm a sucker for such shows as Adventure Time, King of the Hill, Firefly, etc. Honestly, I'm mostly into tv for the cartoons and the background noise.

Music:(clearly a short list, somewhat indicative of styles I lean towards)...The Aquabats, The Beatles, Beirut, The Bravery, Cake, Ceelo Green, Dispatch, Deathcab for Cutie, The Decemberists, Everclear, Everymen, Franz Ferdinand, Franz Nicolay, Gogol Bordello, GooGoo Dolls, Gorillaz, Jimmy Eat World, KooKoo Kangaroo, Mariachi El Bronx, The Mighty Mighty Bosstones, Mischief Brew, Modest Mouse, OK GO, Pink Floyd, The Protomen, The Red Hot Chili Peppers, Smashing Pumpkins, Streetlight Manifesto, The New Drop Era, The Swaggerin' Growlers, Tri-State Conspiracy, The World/Inferno Friendship Society. I'm always looking for good new music, especially more local stuff. Suggestions, anyone?

Music comes best in crowded bars or basements, soaked in alcohol and while dancing with friends. I regularly travel ridiculous distances to see small-time bands in typically no-name venues.

On a related note, if you dig Welcome to Night Vale we'll probably get along famously.

Food: I'm kind of picky but I can usually find something I like in most places/cuisines. Not a fan of seafood, huge fan of craft-brew beer.
Six things I could never do without
I mean, its amazing what you can do without (you know, besides the basics like water and stuff) so lets talk things I'd rather not do without:

1. Adventures full of bad ideas and good people.

2. A car or some other reliable and efficient means of transportation. I'd love to be able to replace car with bike/subway/walking but that isn't possible just yet.

3. This is a tie: q-tips and chapstick. I've saturated my environment with the latter.

4. My cat. He's dopey and funny and adorable.

5. Friends who continue to shock and amaze me in the best possible ways. I know some ridiculously intelligent and interesting people and love them to death. I'd also love to meet more people like them =)

6. The ability and freedom to defy social norms.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Living life in an entirely different way.
On a typical Friday night I am
Oh, this or that. Could be quiet or crazy. Maybe home, maybe NYC, maybe another state. I'm consistently inconsistent or "whimsical", as one of my friends puts it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
At some point, I'm likely to offend your delicate sensibilities.
You should message me if
1)You're interested, and interesting.

2)You want to have (or already have!) a life that's more interesting than a house, a spouse, a couple of kids, and a job you're just doing because its money.

3)You can hold an actual conversation

4) If you can be, when you whisper, absolutely as sincere as when you scream.

Feminists, queers, and those with radical/anarchist politics encouraged. Racist, sexist, classist, homophobic, transphobic, etc. folk need not apply.
The two of us