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My self-summary
I live in a diverse world – young, old, creative, not so creative, all shades of color – I couldn't live without this – has required a huge personal effort – I am likely to maintain this trajectory. I engage with someone who wants/tries to be honest – this helps me.

I can be very funny; my humor is healing to me and maybe to others.

Further examples of diversity: I enjoy fresh, natural foods, contemplative mindfulness, 12 year-old Scotch, and double espresso.

Some of my favorite quotes from OKQ:

"If you are looking for an angel, go to heaven."
"I was born at a very young age."
" I'm a terrible person but I've come to terms with this."
" ..... am I sexually appealing yet?"
What I’m doing with my life
For work I compulsively play with imagery this includes a gig at a art museum (modern) – one of my goals? to blur the line between work and fun. I tend to be entrepreneurian; I am working on an exhibition space – for emerging artists. I fixed an ailing SF Victorian, the girl had been sadly neglected, now she's beautiful again.
Now and then I make short films, it's a lot of work, I get burn-out then don't do it for awhile.
Important stuff: I'm on a on-going search for good chai masala, after thousands of attempts have found three that I like.

Update, I rekindled my relationship with espresso; chai and I are still friends.
I’m really good at
exploring inner space and other dangerous places – going to cafes and art museums. I like surprises; because of turbulence seat belts are sometimes mandatory.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not phallic a narcissist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't want to get complicated here; when I have time, I read – really; I love books; I buy them frequently; I have a bunches around the house: art books, photography books, bios, autobios, (Francesca Woodman comes to mind).
Films Forewarned, I'm going to be esoteric here: Antonioni's early films interesting we might have a fun there. I met Jonas Mekas, and like Stan Brakhage, Brothers Quay. I watched the entire series of The Wire, found it compelling. At times I feel I'd like to see some good Bollywood, the search is ongoing.
I like slide guitar blues, I'll skip the name dropping, there are loads of them, most are interesting – some are amazing.
Six things I could never do without
Good challenging conversation some belly laughs, and maybe a deep & meaningful connection – everything else, ho hum.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to design things, what makes a good photograph, bringing context to things I encounter, how to constructively deal with: obstinence, foolishness, shortsightedness, people who are amazing, people who are judgemental, people who have a narrow frame of acceptance.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't really have typical, but then Friday is not something I always idealize as certain way; I like the idea of a intense late evenings – especially when the idea lives up to the reality.
A passionate cuddlefest where possible, otherwise I'll take my displaced sexuality here: a long bike ride, cafe sitting, home projects, films, mostly these live up to my expectations.
Now and then it can get a little wild but not too often.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have big feet.
You should message me if
your thirst for life isn't easily slaked, and/or, I might learn a few new things from you, and vice versa.

You've mastered boundaries in relationships.

You like walking, taking trains, riding bicycles, flying (with or without airplanes).
The two of us