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My self-summary
I can be very funny; my humor is healing to me and maybe to others.

I enjoy mindfulness, 12 year-old Scotch, and double espresso.

Some of my favorite quotes from OKQ:

"If you are looking for an angel, go to heaven."
"I was born at a very young age."
" I'm a terrible person but I've come to terms with this."
" ..... am I sexually appealing yet?"
What I’m doing with my life
For work I compulsively play with imagery. I tend to be entrepreneurian; I am working on an exhibition space for emerging artists. I fixed an ailing SF Victorian, the girl had been sadly neglected, now she's becoming beautiful again.
Now and then I make short films, it's a lot of work, I get burn-out then don't do it for awhile.
Important stuff: I'm on a on-going search for good chai masala, after thousands of attempts have found three that I like.
I’m really good at
exploring inner space and other dangerous places – going to cafes and art museums. Jesus! I do know how to manage money.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a phallic a narcissist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't want to get complicated here; when I have time, I read – really; I love books; I buy them frequently; I have a bunches around the house: art books, photography books, bios, autobios, (Francesca Woodman comes to mind).
Films: It get esoteric now: Antonioni's early films, (particularly L'Avventura), stuff by Jonas Mekas, and Stan Brakhage, maybe the Brothers Quay. I watched the entire series of The Wire, found it compelling. At times I feel I'd like to see some good Bollywood – the search is ongoing.
I like slide guitar blues, I'll skip the name dropping; there are loads of artists, most are interesting – some are amazing. Yes I like mainstream entertainment but do I really need to list; you've all heard of the stuff.
Six things I could never do without
Good challenging conversation some belly laughs, and maybe a deep & meaningful connection – everything else, ho hum.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to design things, what makes a good photograph, bringing context to things.
How to constructively deal with: obstinance, foolishness, shortsightedness, and hardest of all, people who are amazing,
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't really have typical; I like the idea of a intense late evenings especially when the reality lives up to the idea.
A passionate cuddlefest where possible, otherwise I'll take my displaced sexuality here: a long bike ride, cafe sitting, home projects, films.
Now and then it can get a little wild but not too often.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have big feet.
You should message me if
your thirst for life isn't easily slaked, and/or, I might learn a few new things from you, and vice versa.

You've mastered or thought about boundaries in relationships.

You like walking, taking trains, riding bicycles, flying (with or without airplanes).
The two of us