45Sacramento, United States
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My self-summary
I would say I am pretty selective but I am open to meet all. I am in no hurry to jump at any relationship that just comes across my path. While I consider myself a sexual being, I am not driven by that need. I am looking more of friendship first before a relationship. I am attracted to intelligence, self confidence, self awareness, and empathy for others. I believe we all can help change the world by doing our part. I believe in being of service and helping others. I get along with my ex's except the very last one, it may take some time for her but I am pretty sure we will be friends again someday in the future. I don't take this OK cupid account to seriously, it is fun to chat but I am pretty sure I am not going to find the love of my life on the internet. I keep it light hearted but still waters run deep with me.
What I’m doing with my life
For the most part I work and take care of my baby girl. In my spare time I read and try to better myself. When I have time I paint, draw & tattoo. Currently been teaching myself law. Planning to focus on more of an entrepreneurial mindset. I stay pretty spiritually grounded but have no problem playing on the material plane.
I’m really good at
I think I am pretty good at being a dad. For the most part I think I am good at being a friend and a brother. I am getting better at keeping my mouth shut and learning to listen. Generally stronger on my intuitive creative side, I am currently focused on strengthening my action orientated side. Folks tends to open up to me quite a bit so I would guess I am trustworthy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I cannot honestly say what folks notice about me. Most of the time I try to keep my head down and remain anonymous but being big, tall dude that is near impossible. I imagine, I appear intimidating which is good in some instances but can work to my disadvantage at other times. I am pretty harmless for the most part, that is probably why random folks will come up to me and spill their guts. I am not everyone's taste which is fine, but overall I am good with me. So I got that going for me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Right now I am in a reading frenzy. Mostly non-fiction. Currently in my backpack is a book on poetry by Rumi, a book on grammar, Utopia by Thomas More. Mostly heady philosophical work.

Right now I spend more time watching youtube video's on various subjects that I am interested in. Not a big TV guy, but I can go on Netflix binges from time to time.

Secretary, Dangerous Liasons, Les Miserables, & Dreams....Goodfellas, Godfather 1 & 2

Sushi, Italian, Mexican, pizza...who am I kidding Pizza, then Pizza, then Italian, then Mexican, then sushi

Doctor John, Run the Jewels, Conway Twitty, Medeski Martin and Wood
Six things I could never do without
Knowledge wisdom and understanding
Sun moon and stars
Body mind and soul
Grammar Logic and rhetoric
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Maybe we weren't suppose to have this many choices
On a typical Friday night I am
If I have my daughter it is cooking, playing, and watching movies. If I am daughter free I may go out check out some music, grab a bite to eat someplace new, or maybe staying in reading, drawing or painting.
You should message me if
If you like deep meaningful intense ethereal conversations...I am not big on sports, sitcoms, pop culture...religion and politics cause too many wars...just good old human to human conversation....I like connecting at sol spirit level...if you can handle that say hello...
The two of us