41Tulsa, United States
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My self-summary
im 38.... been married now im not... ive been single for about 4 years well... ive had two realationship since then i guess im set in my ways of how its suppose to be in a realaionship it takes two people working as a team with the same hopes and dreams building a life together with trust and respect and love i belive that love is an action word its something shown by the little things you do no ones more important your equal in a realationship its give and take its not just give its not about you and what you want or just about me and what i want its about us and what we want i dont want drama i live a drama free life its peaceful and calm im not the jelous type i trust you until you give me a reason not to trust you bottom line guys cant lie there just not good at it im fun and yes me and the girls get rowdy on girls night out you got to let your hair down every once in a while take a chance make a move im just one hell of an happy person i go to church i belive in god but god wants us to have fun while were here there must always be time for fun stop and smell the roses i talk alot my mind is constanly working im pretty smart im an adult most the time but theres a kid in me also. i spend alot of time at river parks watching the sun set in the evenings my oldest son is a teenager now and him and his friends kinda want me gone from the house most the time but there good kids and they babysit when im gone. on the weekends its spending time doing family things and on weekend nights i go out

I am funny, happy, and honest
What I’m doing with my life
right now im helping take care of my parents my dad had a massive heart attack a few months ago and my brothers thought it would be a good idea if i moved in with my parents for a while to take care of them since i was single and they have familys dads doing better now and athough its been one hell of an experance its time for my to get back out there in the world
I’m really good at
talking and listening i get along with just about everyone
The first things people usually notice about me
my dark brown eyes and people say ive got a smile that lights up a room and a personality to match im 5 feet tall and 6 inches im about 190 pounds
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
i dont read to much i watch fox news alot i like country music old country music and the new stuff i also listin to guns n roses and old matallica the old stuff mexican food i love to cook
Six things I could never do without
my family they are the reason im here.... my friends ive had two of them since i was 5 yrs old so when we get get together we have alot of stories we been together through everything break ups weddings divorces kids being born were like a family.... my pathfinder ive owned alot of cars but i love my pathfinder...freedom we got it good in this country and i thank god for the people fighting to keep this wonderful country free and safe......hope i cant live with out hope for a better tomorrow for every child.... a better life for every child the world
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my future and my past learning from it so i dont make the same mistakes about my kids and how i can make this world a better place for them
On a typical Friday night I am
out with friends laughing and havein a good time then saturday is kid day we spend it at the park zoo movies or in the 4ft pool i just bought them its fun day then saturday evening is my time to do whatever i want sunday morning it off to church god is a big part of my life im no saint i drink i smoke and cuss every now and again i dont belive you have to be in church everytime the doors are open if your not out acting a fool in the street robbing staeling and murdering people i belive your alright with god anyway thats what i do on the weekends i
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i laugh alot it keeps me young i dont like being around depressed people i know everyone has bad days and im okay with that but when bad days turn into bad months years ect i just got to get away im not cold hearted i just dont see how someone can always be unhappy it makes everyone around them unhappy maybe its what ive been through that makes me not want to be around depressed people and ive got a tatoo i love it
You should message me if
your interested want to hang out be friends and have lots of fun by the way you must be single i dont understand why married men and women are on here looking for someone to hang out with id be pissed off if i was the wife if you want to try and control my dont bother im already controled myself
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