47 Oakland, United States
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My self-summary
There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle. - Albert Einstein.

After 47 years, I think I'm finally getting to understand this, that there really is a choice in each moment, how we engage with life and how we choose to see our lives. Are we empowered and awesome, enjoying life and making things happen or are we stuck in stories that keep us limited. I sure know I have had my stories and now I really want to live in each moment with gratitude. If I'm not doing that, I know something is off. That doesn't mean you don't walk away from certain situations or change things, but there is definitely a choice point about how we see life.

If this resonates with you, I hope you'll keep reading. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Serving, having fun, enjoying nature, being real.

I work for a tech company that is about creates online webinars, if you want to check it out. It is inspiring and challenging work.

I also facilitate communication and mindfulness workshops and am building that business to offer skillful communication techniques in organizations. The thing I love most about good communication is that when we are real, vulnerable and authentic with each other things always work out better than we could have expected.

For my down time I love to camp on by the ocean, take road trips up to the Sierra's, soak in hotsprings, hike, dance, listen to live music, make dinner with friends.
I’m really good at
Listening, being present and helping people find their gifts and clarity.

Watching the sunset in silence and appreciation.

Developing a sales and marketing strategy.

Being romantic and passionate.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my heart, my integrity
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV/Movies: Haven't owned a TV in a while although I like watching some shows on Netflix. When I'm in a relationship, I love snuggling and watching films. I'm not a huge sports fan, would so much rather be engaged in sports than watching, but I LOVE the Warriors. They play in the Zone and its so amazing to watch them.

Reading the Night Circus now. I have read a lot of pyschology, communication and spiritual books like Eckhart Tolle and the Enneagram. I also really like history (was a history major in college).

I also love the sensual, sacred poetry of Rumi, Hafiz and the Radiant Sutra's

I think my favorite thing to do on a weekend night is to go see live music and have a pretty eclectic taste.
The six things I could never do without
Music and dance
Love and purpose
Kids - Been thinking about whether or not I really want my own and love being an uncle
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The usual things, lunch, sex, coffee, climate change, not trying to think about things too much but be the change I wish to seek in the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Could be relaxing at home, out dancing, meeting with friends....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I owe Beyonce a lot of money (a good story)
You should message me if
I'm interested in finding that right person for a deeply committed relationship and enjoying life and meeting new friends on the way. If you'd think meeting would be fun and getting to know me let me know.

Carpe diem