whenindoubt_321
42 Wesley Chapel, United States
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My self-summary
Recently separated (she left me), eventually divorced. I miss having emotional and physical companionship. I spend a lot of time keeping myself busy... Just having someone to talk with would be nice. One can never have too many friends.

I'm also getting back in shape. I'm not overweight but I need to work on my cardio. And I could stand to tone up. I'm recovering from a broken ankle and wouldn't mind someone in my area to walk with me...eventually jog.

I guess I have a long story to tell. Too long for here.

If you view my profile, at least say hi. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Professional, college educated (M.S.), just looking to get back to even. I stay busy with work.

My 2 kids are my world. I do everything for them, and I would do anything for them. I only have them every other week, so my weeks on are full of daddy time. The weeks off are pretty lonely. I try to keep busy.

I've started to get in better shape. Again, I'm not overweight. I just want to add exercise to my lifestyle. Recovering from an ankle fracture/surgery has been a drag. It's time for me to get out there and get healthier.
I’m really good at
Taking care of my 2 kids
Grilling
Cooking
Having fun
Making time for myself (Sort of)

I am also pretty good at watching tv. Although I'd rather be doing something else.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not sure. I've never really asked what someone has noticed about me. I suppose if we met I could ask, or you could tell.

But through conversation...

The fact that I'm recently separated, about to get a divorce. I'm a single dad and put the kids first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like documentary shows
Food Network
ESPN
Seinfeld, gotta love Seinfeld
I'm not too picky with television--I'm pretty good at watching anything that's on.

To be honest, my TV is almost always G rated. My kids have the first say between the hours of 7am and 8pm (not that they watch that much tv)

Sushi
Pizza
Frozen yogurt (Happy Cow)
A good steak (not outback)
Wings
Jelly Belly jellybeans
Anything gummy (bears, worms, sour, etc)

I'm into lots of musical genres. Not super keen on rap. I mean, I can tolerate it. I'm more of a classic rock person. 80s music. Country is ok (I don't know much).

I like live music
I like to play the guitar
I like to take naps when it rains out
The six things I could never do without
My kids
A good piece of pizza
Internet
Music
A comfy bed
My kids

So what, I'll list a few more...
Sleep timer on the TV
Snooze on the alarm
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Making myself a better person--not different, but better. I also think about finding someone who can appreciate my current situation. How can I make my kids have a better life; what do I need to do.

I wonder why I have a hard time sleeping in. I mean, even on weekends I'm up at about the same time that my alarm would go off. And weekdays I'm usually up before the alarm.

I wonder when I'll feel comfortable enough to post a real picture on here. Lol. It's been years since I've had to attempt to date. And this cyber thing seems to be more common these days. I guess it just takes time.

And does anyone else wonder why girls pucker their lips in pictures? I know my pictures are blurry...and I have no room to criticize...I'm just curious why girls do it.

I also wonder why people look at a profile and don't bother to say anything. I mean, even if I don't interest you, a simple "hey, I visited your profile, I was just curious. Not interested" would be fine.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home, either playing with my kids or just hanging out. I like to order in or maybe go out for dinner. My tv is generally rated G during the hours of 7am-8pm. I have found that going to the movies is fun, but not so much fun when there is nobody to talk to about the movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I fall asleep with the TV on? I don't know. There are other things too...but if I said them here you'd have no reason to say hi. :)
You should message me if
You are ok with the fact that my divorce isn't finalized yet; and that my kids come first.
You can understand that my kids come first.
You are ok with me being a single dad.
You are looking for friendship.

Or hey, if you just want to chat. Nothing wrong with that either.

I mean, if you've read this far why not hit the chat bubble and say hi.
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