whilom_chime
40 Toronto, Canada
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My self-summary
I'm easy going, physically active, and generally pretty relaxed unless something gets me excited. Smart enough to have a good sense of what's going on, but always ready to laugh at my own mistakes!

Respect is key: wherever you're coming from is valid. I'm *very* clear about not judging people. I'm kind and compassionate without being spineless.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm doing community work these days. Trying to help marginalised people (including myself) to have healthy sustainable lives in this complex and often unsympathetic world.
I’m really good at
Listening, and I'm a fair story teller too. I'm also really good at explaining things.
The first things people usually notice about me
Is my quiet but open demeanor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I appreciate pretty much any expressive art form. If it's saying something, I'm willing to "listen" as best I can.

Ursula K. LeGuin (an author) is precious to me. All her books are worth reading. "The Dispossessed" and "The Left Hand of Darkness" in particular. Yes this puts me in the anarcho-syndicalist and radical feminist camps.

I watch a lot of film, finding stuff to enjoy in foreign, independent, and even some mainstream film.
The six things I could never do without
Time in the Wilderness
Something *useful* to do
Opportunities to express myself creatively
That's about it. Take things away from me and I'll just learn more about what I *realy* need....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Ummmm.... Everything? Sorry, can't narrow this one down at *all*. If you think about it, chances are I spend time thinking about it too, or if not, I would like to know more about it!
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging with one or more of my awesome friends doing something interesting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was waaay too nerdy in highschool! So much so that no one even ever bothered to offer me any drugs!
You should message me if
you want a genuine interaction. Doesn't matter what kind of interaction, but if your intent is genuine I'll do what I can to make it work or be honest about why I can't.
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