Note to the Universe: I am thankful that the Universe brings me wonderful people who love me and treat me with respect, patience, and love. I am thankful for having a great job that lets me give my gifts and learn at the same time. I am thankful that I am on a path to independence and self sufficiency. I am grateful that the Universe will guide the right people towards me.
Married Visual artist/martial artist. Interests include: kung fu movies, B-movies, cookies, heavy discussion, adults who are in touch with their child-like natures and visual art.
I'm interested in connecting with those who feel they might have common interests/values, particularly those who match my 'keywords'.
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I am cautious, giving, and capable
Trying to get clear on what is good for me, and steer towards it. (Update: I have steered towards it, and I'm continuing to improve my skills!)
'Nother update: I am getting tired of crude offensive trolls on this site. I would like to meet those who are like minds, who have actually taken the time to read my profile. So, feel free to write, but to demonstrate to me that you have actually read my profile.....make sure you include this phrase "Look into your heart". bonus points if you know what movie that is from. If you don't include that phrase I will assume you didn't' read my profile.. and I will not waste my time responding. I feel harsh setting up this protocol but 1) I am very busy and do not have time for trolls asking me to send them naked pictures, and 2) I have a friend who did this same thing on his profile and it worked well for him. :)
(ya know, I have been occasionally lax when sometimes people find my profile through "quiver" or some such thing and they write me but dont' include my secret phrase. I realize being lax on this protocol does no good, it makes me feel like I"m not being "mean" or not letting some opportunity pass me by... dont want to judge someone before I have had the chance to find out what they're about.. but you know... EVERY TIME I make an exception and engage in a conversation with people who haven't read my profile... I end up thinking "why did I do that?" ... they are obviously not compatible with me... nice person though they may be. It may be that I need to re-write my profile to be even more specific about what I am and am NOT looking for.. but I thought my "most private thing I"m willing to admit" was pretty darned clear. ?)
Affection, enthusiastic passion, letting you know my boundaries,
giving to those I care about.
At different stages of my life I would have answered this differently:
in my early teens: my telephone!
around age 16-22: my flute
around age 29: my pick up truck
around age 35: my kung fu pants
around age: 40: my anti-anxiety medication
now: my email!
(some things never change....)
Watching something on Netflix.
honesty polyfidelity ethics intentional family slowpoke dependable consistent
Please note that "poly" is a very broad term, and I fall on the side near polyfidelity, and steer clear of things like open relationships, dont-ask-dont tell, FWB (friends with benefits), swinging,... so if your relationship style is accomodating to more casual, less full-disclosure kind of behavior... it will not work for me... please don't write me asking if it's ok... it will just waste both our time. :)