35Rochester, United States
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My self-summary
...My camera is permanently attached to my hand, okay, maybe not permanent, super glue and duct tape aren't quite permanent
...My body may slow down and take it easy sometimes, but my brain doesn't
...Betty Crocker ain't got nuttin' on me
...If extremely frustrated and at wits end with a problem I am prone to fits of cursing like a sailor
...I'm safe to bring home to mommy
...I have recently learned that it wasn't that I don't like country music per se, but rather almost all country music isn't up to my standards. there is some good stuff out there (I'm currently in love with Brandi Carlile)
...I don't like to eat my vegetables
...When I die I'd like my ashes to be flushed down the toilet, if for some reason that isn't allowed due to health reasons or any other reason I will settle for being placed in an urn on the back of a monkey's back that is shot into space
...I don't own a tv and I don't miss it. That being said, I do watch occasional shows on my computer.
...I'm not a car guy. But I love my car and pay others to take good care of it.
...I like a girl with nice hips and some junk in the trunk, but not enough to be able to put a coke can on it.
...I'm honest, to a fault, and I like it that way.
...I find it amusing that in the description above this field it encourages you to link usernames and as an example has funk_bag shown. Upon completing my profile update I will be searching for said funk_bag to see if they exist.
...I'm striving to be an urban hermit and failing miserably. I haven't killed all my need for social interaction yet...I suppose being on this website is anti-hermit behavior. Oh well.
...I have yet to meet someone more stubborn than me, other than my daughters...yes, that is a challenge.
...Many times I don't want to go to bed at night because I don't want the music to stop.
...I use coupons...coupons save me money...money buys me things...things are good.
...Logic is my friend

I am daydreaming, through, and life
What I’m doing with my life

They pay me to be an engineer. More often than not I try to be.
I’m really good at
Growing older.

I love to cook and been told I'm good at it.

I have also been told I'm a great kisser and cuddler. But those I don't share quite as freely as the cooking.

I have a way with numbers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm short...otherwise I've been told I smile quite a bit and that I have a nice smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

George R.R. Martin's A Song of Ice and Fire series, anything by Kurt Vonnegut, Ayn Rand, or Neil Gaiman. Orson Scott Card's Enders Game. Harry Potter Series. Chuck Palahniuk's Choke and Survivor.


My favorites tend to be great cinematography and story/dialogue (ie Amelie, 300, Fight Club...). I'm up for watching just about anything though. I love classic kids movies and Pixar movies...not so much the newer kid friendly movies.


I like good music, I don't like bad music. I'm quite open in what I listen so that is the simplest way of putting it. I tend to shy away from country, rap, and dance/pop. But if it is good I'll give it a listen.


I love food. I like baked goods, italian, working on spicing it up a bit. I like meat, not so big on the vegetables.
Six things I could never do without
mountain dew
homemade cookies
ice cream
my vw passat
my camera
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I tend to spend a lot of time thinking about how best to parent my girls, what they need, what they want, what I hope for them.

Otherwise, what I want in life. The biggies, love, work, where I want to live, where I want to visit, what sort of adventures I want to go on the upcoming weekend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Taking it easy at home. Either watching a movie, playing games, reading a book. Just relaxing.

Otherwise I may be hanging out with friends at someone's house or out enjoying a drink or two.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have privates
You should message me if
Because the tiny little voices inside my head say so...

if you've looked at my profile more than once I would like to find a way that okcupid would force you to message me before continuing on with life...that would be a sweet feature
The two of us