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My self-summary
I am the exception to a variety of rules. You'll discover that pretty quickly. I write songs and letters and they don't suck. I'm prepared to defend that statement. Please be inspiring.

In another life I was an indie rocker.
Here's a half-recorded song I wrote.
Here's another one. It takes a while to start up but I'm a big fan of the lyrics.

I like confidence that's born from substance. Being genuinely smart is far more interesting than being intellectual. I like sexy but not trashy. Smart is sexy. Clever is irresistible.

I am a dominant lover and a nurturing partner. I am what you didn't know you were looking for. I'm a multi-faceted human being, just like you. If a couch isn't comfortable for spooning while watching movies, it isn't a good couch.

I'm an idea guy. Sometimes I make those ideas come to life. I have no shortage of good ideas. Actually good ideas that pertain to technology, medicine, humanity and, quite possibly, us.

I direct technology and program computers for a living. I'm often working on getting the entrepreneurial ball rolling. I usually telecommute, which means that I can be where I need to be. It's pretty handy.

I recently moved back to Philly after a long time away. In the past 10 years I've lived in Philly, NYC, Upstate NY, DC, Czech Repubic, Israel, Houston... I think that's it.

Remind me to tell you about why I feel responsible for elliot smith's demise...
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to get to the pool every day.
Appreciating spring.
Being creative.
Wondering why you're so late.
I’m really good at
Writing. Music. Photography. Being funny. Mocking the television. Predicting the future. You.
The first things people usually notice about me
Everyone thinks I'm younger than I really am. (and by "everyone" I mean "the people that say that.")
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Something about this question reminds me of kindergarten: "...and what's your favorite color/animal, little jimmy?"

I still love the classics. my 90's indie rock and the great books. Let's talk about this in person instead of on this infernal site.

Here's a few off the top of my head

Mitch Hedburg

Movies: Wings of Desire, The Jerk, Secretary, Reuben & Ed, Sid & Nancy, Bill & Ted, Harold & Maude, Blade Runner, Annie Hall, Rear Window, Zombieland, Better Off Dead, Scott Pilgrim, Shaun of the Dead, Elf
TV: Always Sunny, Game of Thrones, Dexter, Community, Battlestar Galactica, Firefly (pretty much anything sci-fi), Sherlock, 30 Rock, MST3k. My favorite TV show is the original British version of Different Strokes.
Books: Salinger, Kundera, Confederacy of Dunces, To Kill a Mockingbird (Fun fact: this was written by Bruce Lee's sister, Harper.), Day by Day Armageddon. (I told you I like the classics)
Bands: Haywood, Small Factory, Archers of Loaf, Seam, Elliot Smith (I was in one of those bands that you've never heard of. I also like lots of stuff that isn't 90's indie rock) -- Bumbletruck, The Pool Boys, Shray, The Block Letters, Salty (I made up all the band names after the hyphen. They probably exist, though...)
Six things I could never do without
I don't understand the question and I won't respond to it

I could never do skydiving without a parachute.

I could never do your mom without a few drinks.

I could never do you understand the words that are coming without of my mouth?

Seriously, though, all I need is this chair...and this lamp...and this book of matches.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Is it gay to kiss yourself? ...cause my tongue is in my mouth right now...

Also, the nature of the universe. Seriously. I'm currently working on an outline for a book on the topic.

I'm always coming up with ideas and designs...

Also, was Different Strokes the right choice for my previous joke. Should I have gone with The A-Team? Fantasy Island? 21 Jump Street? In my head, British Arnold says, "Dearest brother Willis, whatever on god's green earth are you talking about?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Socializing or computing or reading or looking to meet new people. I don't mean people that are new. I mean people that are new to me. Babies are people that are new. They're usually not out on Friday nights...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll whisper these things into your ear while sitting in the back of some bar, through the cacophony of the merry-makers. You'll try not to blush...

Also, I think this site may promote sociopathic behavior. Let's get off of it.

I'd like to skip to the 12th date. (That means I prefer intimacy to dating.)
You should message me if
You can diffuse a tense situation by saying, "Hey, Mr. Cunningham."
You'd rather sit next to me than across from me.
You agree with this poem wholeheartedly.
You want to go places with me.
You don't want to date everyone on this site.
The two of us