I'm good-natured, outgoing, inevitably cheerful, self-disciplined and in endless pursuit of new experience.
Turn-ons include witty banter, practical shoes, competence, tattoos, side-shaves, intelligence, shameless flirting, clear boundaries, and smashing the patriarchy. 🔥
In a long-term non-monogamous relationship. Available for drinks, dating, conversation and ongoing relaxed hedonism.
I’m a recent immigrant and am still building a community. My friends here lean towards the younger side and my closest friends are all overseas, so I'm seeking connections with those who have a similar relationship to adulting as me.
I’ve only just begun to date actively, so I’m a trifle clumsy. It’s best seen as endearing?
Organizing other people into modular music-creating units.
Humour so subtle only my favorite people notice.
I love jazz, hip-hop, funk, R&B, post-punk, bass music and experimental electronic music. Some artists (in no particular order): Hiatus Kaiyote, LCD Soundsystem, Daft Punk, David Bowie, Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds, Talking Heads, Tipper, Broadcast, Coil, Beyonce, Kendrick Lamar, Tobias Lilj, Earth Wind & Fire, Nile Rodgers, D'Angelo, J Dilla, Flying Lotus and Baths.
Much of what I read lives in the interstices of literary fiction, post-modernism, science fiction and the New Weird. See: K.J Bishop, Jeff Vandermeer, Thomas Pynchon, Cormac McCarthy, David Foster Wallace, China Mieville, Jo Walton, Claire Vaye Watkins and Iain Banks.
I won't shut up about Iain Banks: no one in America seems to have heard of him.
I don't know much about film or visual art.
Feminism, particularly in the music industry.
Relationships, sexuality, communication and happiness.
These are all serious subjects, but I am not a particularly serious person.
Sadly, I'm at my most functionally creative at 7am, so late nights have become a special event, until I win that first Grammy or whatever. #adulting
Asking me questions about being a musician makes me feel good about my life choices.
You're smart, adventurous, organized, vivacious, outspoken, confident and honest.
You're down with open relationships. I have an amazing wife you might meet.
Maybe you're a secretly a little bit of a sub?
(Definitely not related to dating: you want to talk music in a deep, complicated kind of way)