The things I consider primary to myself are an endless curiousity, a playfulness with words and language (sometimes that just means dumb jokes), and a conscientiousness born of a desire to not inflict suffering on others. That last character trait can be easily misapplied, because I over read some situations, and am oblivious to others. Same with everyone.
Other people might start with my height (although with all things smacking of privilege, since I am tall, I never think about it), and then move into my seeming a bit removed, but that's just because I'm still taking in my surroundings. And then eventually, I'm hopefully engaging and awkwardly charming. In any case, I'm a cup of tea, and I hope to be yours, in that sense.
As a discerning person, I probably like much the same things as you, fellow lady of discernment.
Actually, I actively try not to think as much. This is somewhat meditative.
Oh, and whether or not the dog needs to pee.
Or Propping up middle american dictatorships.
Really I run a Friday night chop shop specializing in European imports,
Ok, and I put people on my favorites list with the intent of messaging them, and then grow so tired of seeing them on the 'online now' portion of my profile, that I decide to message them with something flippant and quick, just to get them off that list. This is not the best method for procuring dates.
But then, I don't take this site that seriously. Do you?
I would go four part christmas caroling anytime of year.
Put that gin up in that microwave,
press thirty secs and walk away,
come back in a min or two,
hot gin be wait'ng for you.
Aaaaand, I am willing to do new nice, normal messages on request, but otherwise you're getting the weird ones. Y'know, without midstream editing.
Oh, if you can't be funny, at least be funny weird.