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My self-summary
To start with a side note, I was amused to see how many people start out their self summary by saying age. If you want to know my age, you can always look next to my photo. Though to appease people:

Hi, I'm a 30 year old female who lives in Indianapolis, IN. I joined OK cupid to meet new people around my area. I moved here a while ago, but I'm a quiet person, and I haven't really met a lot of people I can hang out with.

Anyway, I know it's semi-cliche, but I will say it: I don't like describing myself. I'm always afraid I'll come off as arrogant, and I'm really not. I can be quiet, but if you say hello, I'll respond warmly. I try to be polite and nice to everyone.

I really love the English language, mostly as a warning. I spend time thinking about word choice, and trying to sound intelligent through those words (not that I'm not intelligent, just that I want the way I speak to reflect the fact that I really have gone to college, and enjoy English).

I love to be around people who make me think about my own core beliefs, without attacking them. I like people I can really connect with, and talk to on a deeper level. I am very loyal, as long as you don't betray me. though I can be somewhat slow to trust, my trust is forever, again, as long as you don't break it. I'm dependable and trustworthy, kind and caring. I can be very affectionate and loving. There's little else to me that compares to being able to cuddle up with someone and even just talk freely.

Certainly, if you can get through my somewhat cold, quiet, introverted exterior, I'm worth knowing.

Anything else, just ask.

I am sincere, thoughtful, and perplexing
What I’m doing with my life
Working, alas. I like to game, read, and write.
I’m really good at
That would depend on who you asked, though I would like to think that the general agreement would be writing.

I'm also annoying about liking to sing to radios and whatever music may be playing I know. I like to sing, so it probably shouldn't be in the what I'm good at section, but it's as good a place as any.
The first things people usually notice about me
I wear glasses. I am also over weight, which I'm sure has made some people back away slowly and run for the hills. Each to his own, really.

I also don't have short hair anymore.

I don't ask people this question, so that's about the best answer I can give you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
As of late, I find myself reading more and more books by Nicholas Sparks, but I am a girl, so you can forgive the love story extravaganza.

I love Italian food more than words could ever possibly say. I also like Chinese food and just about anything homemade. Thankfully, I have a husband who loves to cook, and he makes great chicken parm.

I like all kinda of music, as long as it has nice lyrics, I'm all for it. Yes, even rap, even country. Currently, I am listening to a lot of Phil Collins.

I tend to watch a lot of kids movies.
Six things I could never do without
Music (mostly in the form of Pandora), legal pads (real yellow ones), red pens, people I care about, my computer (assuming it also has internet access), transportation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Random nonsense.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going to the grocery store.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Well, private implies that you are unwilling to share it, so I dare say, I won't post anything here except feel free to message me with any questions you may incur whilst reading my profile.
You should message me if
You're an interesting human being.

You're an interesting non-human English speaking organism.

You're bored and want someone to talk to.

You're bored and want someone to annoy the crap out of.

You're a vampire who needs a donation of blood.
The two of us