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My self-summary
There once was this guy from Nantucket...uh, seriously, I'll save you some time, if you know anything about what an INFJ personality is, stop reading..If not, I'll start by saying I think I'm a introverted extrovert. I am a person endlessly fascinated by the complexities of the human spirit; how we are continuously changing, growing, and contradicting even our deepest held thoughts and ideas. Everything we do is a reflection of our immediate conception of life, which changes faster than we can think. I find that my actions are always a step behind my mind-the desires of my heart, often unclear, are always right in front of me, pulling me into the next moment. I love the moments in life where I can see the world with clarity and simplicity; it's those moments where I feel that I experience true beauty and happiness. My God, my friends, my music, and when life imitates art...they are the places where those moments begin. About the "type" of woman I'm looking for, what can I say except maybe the same old clichés I've seen others use.. that I'm just a unique and original red blooded American boy lookin' for an optimistic, open minded, free spirited, fun-loving woman with a sense of humor?! DUH..but seriously, though,who really knows what they looking for until they find it....but I will give the one most important word-in the beginning , anyway-is chemistry, then friendship, because that what love is.. "a friendship set on fire." Let me finish by what makes me happy and what make me..well... me. Whenever I get to share a little bit of myself with others, the unique qualities that make me me and the unique qualities that make you..well..you...then we share those the qualities and eccentricities and then we can learn to appreciate that in others, and observe how we're all the same but different- different but the same..and we sure can't forget that sharing laughter can be pretty bonding...1 second of laughter=ten seconds in heaven! Think I read that somewhere! Humor is the oil that we squirt on our troubles to lubricate the friction..the world boils and roils inside a pressure cooker- and humor trips the release valve....
By the way, I'm a nighttime kinda person-I think maybe since I was born during the midnight hour, that's why I love the moon and the stars ... or maybe its just the romantic in me ! cant see "likes"...
What I’m doing with my life
Looking for someone to share it with!
I’m really good at
Empathy. I seem to have the blessing... or the curse... of sensitivity to others feelings...
The first things people usually notice about me
is my blue eyes..then personality..then, sense of humor. Although on a good day, it'll be my sense a' humor first! Ha!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like all music from that magical wonderland we call the "eighties" ! Haven't listened to music in awhile, but just bought a pair of Bose ear buds..now listen all the time! I once knew a rapper, he worked in a gift shop.
Six things I could never do without
my faith
my computer
my best friend
A laugh track !
An "attitude of gratitude"
Last, but certainly not least, HOPE
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Can be a little philosophical at times, Why don't we ever see the headline "Psychic Wins Lottery?" Why is lemon juice made with artificial flavor yet dish washing liquid is made with real lemons? why do you have to "put your two cents in" but it's only a "penny for your thoughts"? Where's that extra penny going to? If a deaf person has to go to court, is it still called a hearing? I often wonder on how the world came to be. At every sign of life I see, from an ant crawling on the ground carrying a snack twenty times its body weight to the majestic songs of the whale in the deep blue sea, to a mother holding her baby.....must be intelligent design ! I can't believe this world just "happened"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix. Chinese Takeout. Yeah, yeah, I know, you must be thinkin' "This guy needs to get a life!"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm in touch with my feminine side. I watch the Lifetime channel sometimes.....
You should message me if
you think you have a great sense o' humor.
The two of us