32Overland Park, United States
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My self-summary
So I guess it's about time that I've updated this thing, since it's been forever since I did.

I'm somewhat recently back into dating. I was in a relationship for quite a while, but was newly single a little over a year ago. Since then I've just been doing the single thing focusing on family and friends, work and just being on my own for a while. I do, however, find myself, when on an adventure, or doing something fun or seeing something beautiful wishing I had someone special to share those sorts of things with.

Insofar as I go, I'm kind of a geek, I like werewolf and zombie movies to a rather ridiculous degree as well as reading a wide swath of genres. I'm kind of quiet except when I'm with people I know and trust and I have a decidedly quirky sense of humor. I'm also a big fan of cuddling, even though I do apparently radiate the body warmth of about ten thousand suns, so needless to say I like the cold and therefore winter and fall are my favorite seasons. Also on a side note I'm a pretty good listener, my most frequent personality type is an INFJ or "the councilor," so while I may give advice like an elf, I'll listen to your joys and woes.

I've traveled around a lot, though most of it has been for work. I'd like to travel more for pleasure and go somewhere fun or pretty for a change. I listen to music most while on a plane or driving across states, and I love my music. I'll listen to everything from something soft to pretty hard metal. I'm going through a bit of a tech black metal phase at the moment though.

I guess if you want to know anything else, feel free to ask.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working at a startup engineering firm here in town. So far it's going great, and allowing me to further my career and providing new experiences there. Otherwise, I'm just trying to appreciate the small gifts of life and the people that I get to share them with.
I’m really good at
Listening to people when they have problems and chances are if you have a computery question I'll know the answer.
The first things people usually notice about me
Well if I have my glasses on, then probably my eyes, not that they're special or anything. If I'm not wearing my glasses.... I'm not sure, my piercings maybe?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: harry potter, amelia peabody series. hercul poirot, nero wolfe, 1984, perks of being a wall flower, lotr

movies: zombieland, warm bodies (love this one), harry potter, wolfman, underworld, the hunt for red october, lotr, good sci fi B movies

music: collective soul, GnR, MSI, lamb of god, type o negative, smashing pumpkins, aerosmith, white stripes, inquisition, 1d, basically some rock and alternative manily, but other stuff too.

food: well if it's Italian I'll likely love it, sushi, seafood, lots of soups, beagles with a shameful amount of cream cheese, and I'm a tea fiend.
Six things I could never do without
food, books, music, good conversation, sushi, internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot time thinking about why people most fundamentally think and react the way they do. Why, most fundamentally, do we feel the way we feel, harm each other, help each other and many other thoughts. I also spend quite a bit of time wondering if I'll ever find true love.
On a typical Friday night I am
either netflixing (I'm somewhat addicted) before falling asleep after a long week or doing something with family or friends. I'm not much of a bar / club kind of guy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
if you wanna know just ask me, i don't really beat around the bush.
You should message me if
You've made it this far and would like to, or I seem interesting or you think you seem interesting or...Or...OR, most importantly, if you're willing to agree to the following condition:

I'll rekill the zombies for you, if you kill the spiders for me.
The two of us