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My self-summary
I have decided to embrace hedonism. That element has always been part of my life, but I am letting it off the chain now. That is the kind of energy I am bringing to the table and I'm looking for people who can match that frequency.

And no, hedonism doesn't mean just sex and drugs. I mean, I like sex and (some) drugs a whole bunch, but there is a lot more to it than that. Some Greeks wrote about it a long time ago, there's a whole thing.

Let's race go karts. Let's rent a limo. Let's get day drunk and practice magic. Let's hike 10 miles to fuck like crazy on top of a mountain. Let's host orgies. Let's build a peice of collaborative art and then set it on fire. Let's act like uncaged animals who are living in what is supposed to be the land of the free. Let's remind ourselves what freedom really means.

I am pansexual. More in to women than men as a general rule, but it's an important part of my life. Relationship wise I am ultimately not looking for someone to who considers themselves monosexual or vanillia. Monogamy is not on the table and never will be in any meaningful sense of the word. I don't have any particular kink, but I bring GGG to a whole other level.

In terms of new friends, I need more people who are focused on community and exploration in my life. I am less concerned about what your particular hobbies are and more concerned that you have passion in your heart and use it often.

This summer is about affirming life, in all of its multiplicities. Toward that end, I've been gathering interesting people around me. To do this right, I need a few more companions who are totally unashamed to be who they are. You in?
What I’m doing with my life
I am an all around semipro creative type. Meaning, I make art and art adjacent projects in wildly different media. Right now, my primarly outlet is DJing, but it has previously been painting, writing, acting, and musical production and compositon.

I am starting a racing team. My partner and I are hoping to have our car track ready next year.

I also have a classic I am restomodding.

Just in general, I spend a lot of my spare time working on cars and/or art in one capacity or another.

I am also working on my Spanish. Dear god please help.
I’m really good at
Making chicken noodle soup from scratch.
Ticket To Ride. (Sometimes)
Texas Hold 'em.
Giving tours of places.
Empathizing (seriously, I could empathize with a brick given enough time).
Making flaming cocktails.
Being inappropriate in spaces that require being appropriate and vice versa.
Not giving a fuck, but only as regards the proverbial haters.
Also, seriously, I can drink you under the table. You don't even want to try to out do me. You might drink faster, but I will go far, far longer.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably the absolutely insane amounts of curly hair I have growing out of various parts of my head.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books, movies, shows, music: Look, you really don't want to get me started on any of this. I will rant about it. That rant will probably contain phrases, declarations, and words like "excessivly modernist," "genre is useful for critics and distributors, not fans or artists," and "Ke$ha".

If that is your idea of a a good time too, you should absolutely message me immediately.

Food: I'm easy. I can find something to like in pretty much any setting or cuisine you might throw at me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to heal our culture.
On a typical Friday night I am
I will probably kicking it around the firepit. If not mine, someone else's. Talking with friends old and/or new.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am in the middle of a divorce. It's a temporary problem of mine. If that's not a problem for you, then I won't make it your problem.
You should message me if
You want to turn the life part of your work/life balance into a carnival of good times.

You bring something interesting to the table and know it.

You think netflix and chill is exclusively for laundry night.

You (or you and your SO/friend/other) want to eat dinner with a stranger who fancies himself a decent conversationalist.
The two of us