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My self-summary
Hi! Well, the first thing anyone must know about me is that I'm a huge suck. And that I've updated this profile recently. If you've read this before, you may wish to re-read!

I'm a feeler, an empath and I'm pretty outgoing and affectionate. I give of myself freely yet here I am still looking for that right woman who will enjoy my company, friendship and if the chemistry's there, intimate sensuality. My loving husband of 20+ years supports me PLEASE read this entire profile, especially the "You should message me if" section at the very bottom.

I love to please. I love and make love with reckless abandon! I just don't know how to hold back. If I'm in, I'm all in! I blush easily and can be somewhat shy on occasion, but am more characteristically forward and flirty. ;-) i can be naiive and too trusting and am told I have a child-like appreciation of life and its wonders. The lists of every day things that can make me laugh or cry are too lengthy to be considered normal. (here's a sampler: northern lights - cry, sponge bob - laugh, tv weddings - cry, puppets - laugh..every time, thought provoking art - both!)

I guess I'm in somewhat reasonable shape and have been told by men and women that I'm apparently cute and feminine but I'm no princess or Barbie and this fluffy belly of mine remains a work in progress! I look after myself, but you won't find me shoe shopping or getting my nails done every week.

I've been told I'm a very genuine, sincere, passionate, and fun-loving person. I can also be a handful since I'm pretty emotional but I am also lots of fun. I have tasteful pics (and some naughty ones too) for the right person. I'm looking for a passionate, fun-loving lady for something special: a friendship in and out of the bedroom. A great attitude and sense of humour turn me on most. I like my life simple, drama free and generally full of laughs and good energy.

I'm down to earth and live a pretty simple, peaceful country life with my family and dogs. I like to be active and have a healthy sense of adventure. I welcome opportunities to learn and expand my mind, body and soul as they arise. I'm pretty accepting of most things so long as there is no potential for someone to be hurt in any way. I tend to treat others as I would like to be treated and hope for the same courtesy in return. I have no tolerance for liars, cheaters, bullies, players, phonies, or folks who are a bit too into themselves and/or status and possessions.
What I’m doing with my life
Spending way too much time on this site and watching girl porn!! Lol

When I'm not working (I'm really lucky to have work that I find very meaningful and rewarding) - I love swimming, weekends at the cottage, family time, dancing, a glass or two of wine, long bike rides, walking nature trails with ma dawgz, all manner of music, spending time in the company of charismatic people. I love to laugh - and so if you are happy in your life that adds to life's pleasures.

I am learning and growing and taking chances that i'd never before imagined.
I’m really good at
Listening, treating people with respect and kindness, clear, honest and open communication, laughing, loving life and making you feel special.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my warmth. My legs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Wish I could remember book titles, but these days I read more non fiction (self help) than fiction.

My favourite movie of all time is Rain Man. I love cheesy Christmas movies like Elf and It's A Wonderful Life. I have the taste of an adolescent boy in comedy and am giddy with anticipation for Anchorman 2. Love, love, love anything Christopher Guest - Spinal Tap, Best In Show, A Mighty Wind. If it's clever or silly and funny, chances are I love it. Stooges are a great way to waste a rainy Sunday imho.

Love mindless TV like Modern Family, Come Dine With Me, Coronation Street, Arrested Development, Trailer Park Boys, cans wait for the next seasons of Schitt's Creek, Grace and Frankie and Mad Men.

I really do like a lot of different kinds of music, especially live. Mood and circumstances dictate - from pop top 40 for dancing to folk, classical, jazz, classic rock, independent, almost anything really. It would be a much shorter list if I only named what I don't like! Kind of really into anything Xylophoney these days.

I love seafood, spicy and interesting dishes. Lots of international flavours and unexpected combinations. I haven't eaten any red meat in over four years. I like eating healthy, but I also love pizza and junk food. dealing with an obsession with chocolate almonds.
The six things I could never do without
Not including the life necessities (oxygen, water, food, shelter etc.)
--family, friends and ma dawg
--glass of wine
--chair and good book by the lake
--ability to swim...somewhere
--dancing like crazy..as if no one's watching
--sex, yup.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Well, a lot of things, but I must admit I think about women, love and sex a lot. That's a big part of why I'm here. I think about how truly lucky I am too. Lucky to have so much love in my life and how to make time for more. Lucky to have my health, a wonderful life, a loving family and great friends.
On a typical Friday night I am
I do go out occasionally...drinks, dancing, dinner, a concert or show, having a few drinks by the fire in summer. Love comedy clubs and have recently discovered a new penchant for Burlesque shows. Fri nights could be anything! I'm a little spontaneous and love to be silly and goofy and playful anytime I can. A fun first date for me would be an evening of laser tag! I like trying new things and experiences, but I also love to cuddle up with someone special, a glass of wine and chips and salsa in front of the TV or play some cards, board games or charades! Guess there really is no "typical".
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will continue to live in this closet for some time even though it is completely against my character to hide anything. Feeling so conflicted...
You should message me if
You are a woman who is bi-sexual, gay, or SERIOUSLY bi-curious and you know that women are amazing, sexy and desirable. You are generally very sexual, and responsive and you want lots of attention and luvin'. Body shape and size are of little importance to me. Chemistry is a must and can often be easily determined by getting lost in a kiss or a gaze. You're looking to have a relationship with a giving and affectionate woman. You may be single or in an open or poly relationship but you are independent, confident, know what you want and think and speak for yourself. You must be honest, real and have a warm and daring heart and willing to connect on an emotional level as well.

Outside of the bedroom, I am hoping to find someone genuine who actually likes me for who I am and has some time for fun, friendship, conversation; a real connection is very important to me. I love to chat, email, text, converse....lots!

I'd really like to meet someone who I could get to know well and have something on going with. I like folks who don't take themselves too seriously, are kind, loving, open minded, caring, accepting, generally good souls. Someone who is comfortable with dating a poly woman.

Message me and let's talk about it.