52Seattle, United States
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My self-summary
Really quite charming when you get to know me. not currently looking to date, as I'm in a significant romantic, if long-distance, relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
I've had some good recent lessons in humility.
I’m really good at
avoiding questions like this.


Obscure literary trivia.

Knowing what's going to happen in the next half hour in the TV show or the movie, but not saying anything about it.

Listening, until I get tired of it. But then I'm pretty good at talking, until I figure you're tired of it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've got an extensive vocabulary and kind eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read like a demon and watch more movies and shows that are good for me, so my tastes are broad. I love cooking--particularly grilling, in all temperatures--and love sharing food. I listen to a lot of jazz and my favorite music of all time is probably the popular songs of Tin Pan Alley--Gershwin, Porter, Weill, they all slay me.
Six things I could never do without
a shoulder bag
my books on their shelves
some green, even if it's just a window box
some romance
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whatever I'm currently researching or writing about, which currently is a lot of the history and culture of the late Victorian/early Edwardian period and how the facts relate to modern life and movements like Steampunk. How to explain to people what "Steampunk" is. Wishing that it had a name other than "Steampunk" so it wouldn't sound so...punk. (And Steam.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends, entertaining at home, or working and trying to convince myself that this is what I wanted to do anyway.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Most of the good parts in my life I owe to my friends.
You should message me if
not if you're bored. I'm not your monkey.
not if you're between things. I'm not your divider.
if you are smart, fun, sexy, capable and like to laugh.
The two of us