Creating and building new relationships with a cool person, while having great conversations along the way.
I'm an intelligent guy, so, if we can connect on a mental level, that's a great start. ( Oh, and if you are into personality types - I would more or less fall under the INTP category. )
Also, if you have a sense of humor, amongst other cool things, that would be great as well. What makes you laugh?
Message me, even if it's just - Whatssup, with the thumbs up? Cheesy, yes? Probably. lol
...and now, on to the rest it.
I want you to know more about me by reading below or actually messaging me and finding out more for yourself.
- And yes it's a lot, but has substance and was thought out.
So, by all means, stop now, if you find me uninteresting, but I challenge you to continue on to understand why I am not.
What I'm looking for, but not bound to, in a woman, because I have many of these traits myself:
In no particular order, for her to be understanding, witty (or a great sense of humor; that is not too dark), laid back | mature | Down-to-Earth | Homebody (but not everyday) | and most importantly, intelligent, amongst other traits.
And as most women are these days, for her to be independent.
Although I may come off as being serious, I actually like to have fun, but nothing clubby, etc. I prefer the company to whatever place I find myself with a person.
I enjoy being around a woman who is mature - emotionally, physically, spiritually, mentally, as well. If she is free-spirited and open-minded, that would be a bonus. Oh, also if she's artistic and creative, that would great too, only because I'm more in tune to these types of women and people in general.
Because I value intelligence, it would be awesome if she was smart as well. I always enjoy being challenged in this area. Mental stimulation, to me, can be a lot more powerful than physical one. Speaking of which, I very much do enjoy intimacy and this can be without sex being involved. ie. I actually enjoy cuddling; not too many guys do.
Now obviously, because most people do not like lists, I'm not looking for perfection where none exists, so I'm just throwing what I'd prefer out there. *If you think that I'm asking for too much, you can call me on it. I think I'm being fair with what I want in a long-term companion. There are a lot more positives that can go on this list, but I will leave it at this for now.
Things that have bothered me:
Any negative descriptive that can be thought of, can be listed here. But, here are a few: disloyal, combative, insincere, petty, etc. The thing is though, my inner circle is chosen quite selectively. So, I have not had too many of these issues arise from people I knew|know closely.
A personality trait that I like most of all is - Intuition:
One of the closest people to me, knows me more than I know myself; and I like that. It means that if there is something going on with me, I don't necessarily have to say anything to get some attention on my problem. The quality that I liked in this other person was the ability listen not hear what it is that I had to say. The quality that I have that might put someone at ease, is that I am patient. But, of course that is only to certain degree.
Any relationships that I have had up to this point have been fairly drama-free. There are other ways to spice up a relationship with someone. So, it would make me 'happy' if anyone that I met here would be drama-free as well.
And as such, in case I did not mention this already, if you are into entrepreneurship too, then we have a lot to talk about.
So, those who know me, usually get a sincere feel for who I am and what I'm about. But, as far as details, I suppose understanding people and their problems and being a good listener.
As for books, mainly business books and besides that, any reading I do is usually for practical reasons.
As for food, I'm not too picky, as long as it is prepared well and not too strange.
Outside of Chess, though, it is more about the company that I'm with, than where I am and what I'm doing. So, that could be just about anywhere and anything, within reason.