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My self-summary
Hi, I'm Cindy.
My profile name is pronounced "Shenshen". If you want I'll explain that one to you if you ask rEEEally nicely.

I'm married to the love of my life! I also love my boyfriend, he was an unexpected surprise I'm thankful to of found. In case you were wondering, yes I'm poly, no I am not looking for anything currently but friendship. To be honest, I just don't have the time.

I wish I was a pirate!

I was born in the 80's raised in the 90's.

I <3 Michigan. Plain and simple.

I really like pumpkins!

I absolutely love driving.

I'm an open and loving individual. I give hugs a lot.

My favorite color is green. But I also love purple. Orange its a very close third.

I'm quite a nerd, dork, dweeb. Whatever you want to call it I'm in to nerdy stuff and I play things like Magic: the Gathering, Dungeons & Dragons and WoW though I do not play Wow anymore.

I've recently found a new love of going to conventions! Do you go to them? You should message me. :]

I have and enjoy tattoos and piercings.

I love snow; it's the greatest thing about winter.

Energy and feeling are a big part of my life. I'm not religious but I am spiritual when in the moment. I believe in auras and nature and energies being connected. I am not 100% sure what I believe in regards to religion but I can tell you there isn't nothing. There is something that connects us to each other more than science.

I'm Irish, French and German but feel closest to my irish heritage.

MY astrological sign is Gemini, that's the twins. I don't follow horoscopes much but I feel I fit the gemini personality to a tee most of the time.

Je parle francais en petit peu. Es-que vous-parlez francais?

Sleep is wonderfully amazing, though it is fleeting for me often.

I quote movies and music lyrics a lot.

I am not a girly girl by any means but I can be a bit over emotional. I'm definitely tom-boyish but I am not butch. I probably have more balls than most guys do but that's just because I'm bad-ass like that. :P

I express my emotions through song.

I was born in the year of the Dragon on the Chinese zodiac. I'm supposed to bring luck to those around me.

I'm very open minded and I love to try anything once so I never close the door on anything unless I've experienced it before and know I don't like it. This also means I'll gladly listen to something that others might find you strange for.

I was into the Spice Girls when I was younger. :]

I LOVE cooking!!

I thrive in the darkness. Night time and being out late are things I love.

I know many parts of MI. Michigan is my one true home and I will always love it.

I'm a creature of the night. I am awake these hours and live my life during this time of day. AS of late it's also equalling to insomnia some days.

I like connections to people and I like being around friends.

I thrive on doing things for others and being there for people in need.

My favorite thing on a playground are the swings!!!! =D

I love all animals but I am no PETA avocate. I think People EAT Tasty Animals, ha ha.

I play a lot of video games when I hang out with other people. I don't play them much on my own unless they're old school games like from the 80's or early 90's.

I am spontanious, quirky, and amorous
What I’m doing with my life
I'm living it the best I can. I'm blossoming into a responsible and very well put together adult. Some days are better than others but I'm getting through.

Currently, I work a job and go to college occasionally. I'm still trying to figure it out, what I'm doing. My largest passion is all things Celtic and Renaissance festivals.

I'm not seeking anything specific but if I were I'd be looking for someone to have a real interpersonal relationship with; and by relationship I don't necessarily mean a coupling. I'm poly. It would be nice to start as a friendship, or even just a flirtatious companionship but I'd like it to be something real; to last more than a few months or a year.
I’m really good at
Puting others first.

Standing up for things.

Linking random quotes/lyrics from movies/songs to current conversation.

I'm also good at listening and helping others.

Remebering how people are connected to each other, or just remembering people in general.

Being myself and just being a goofy fun person to be around.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm affectionate. I love giving hugs to people I like and are friendly.

I'm rough around the edges. I'm slightly frazzled at all times. At my worst I'm clumsy and slightly awkward but I don't care.

I'm an untraditional beauty. You won't find me in pearls or heels but after being around me enough you'll come to recognize my spunkiness and ecletic style.

At times I may come off as a little bit of a Bitch to some but I really think those people don't understand me or they are lacking brain cells. Just my opinion and my experience.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I'm a dork. I'll admit it. I like fantasy genre books mostly or ones about issues I can relate too. Sadly though I don't read that much. I just never got into it. I mean I know how to read quite well actually but I just have a short attention span and it distracts me form reading more.

Movies: I love watching movies. Definitely one of my passions. Indie's are usually the best and epic expanses like Star Wars or Lord of the Rings. I have a few directors I like: Tim Burton or Kevin Smith and some more I can't think of right now. I like the appeal of Disney movies but only because I like nostalgia and I love fairy tales and cartoons. I love fairy tales but that's because I love fantasy. And of course pirate movies are a must.

Music: I've decided I have an affinity for music. I love all music. You name a genre, I like it or at least some of it. I never limit myself because I always like discovering something new and evolving. I don't like closing myself off to new horizons. For the most part I like most forms of rock, metal, industial,techno, indie rock and a lot of 80's music. To make it easier I can tell you what I dislike more. I hate current teeny-bopper music like shitty disney backed musicians. And sometimes it depends a LOT on my mood about what I like or feel like listening too.

Whoop whoop!! ;] MC love!

Food: Pizza is absolutely my favorite. I could eat it every day as long as it had different toppings. I love food in general though. It tastes good and it brings people together. Cheese is also a big fav on my list. I like cheese and I love when it's melted or mixed with other stuff. I also kinda like things with a spicy kick like chipotle stuff or buffalo wings. I also love trying new things, bring on the variety!

TV(although it's not listed): So I don't have cable, at all. I have a TV but it's only hooked up to use the DVD or various video games. I like watching some shows though when I'm at other people's houses. Beacause I love food I love The Food Network. I also love feeding my brain so I like Discovery Channel (yay mythbusters!), History Channel (Modern Marvels anyone?) and the like. I like Firefly, House, and lots of others. Mostly if it's something that piques one of my other interests I'll watch it.
Six things I could never do without
Love. Above all, this it what I strive to have in my life. Love to me though is very broad.

Music/Sound. There is something somewhat spiritual/soulful about rhythm and tones of sound. It truly is an international language. It helps us communicate things below the surface of just words alone. Also, I sing constantly. It actually makes me more prodictive and focus better.

Words. Language is very powerful and it's intriguing how similar and different each word is. I think all written word is art in a way. I mean look at asian languages and their letters/words are an art form. I think that is true of all words in any language.

Thought. I love letting my mind run away with itself on endless topics. Even if I can't articulate what I am thinking about it still entertains ME. lol It can be a problem though too because I won't focus on what I'm supposed to be thinking about [i.e. the task at hand] and it can get me into a bit of trouble.

People. I love to look at groups of people and think about humans as a race and how we react to things in large groups. But I also value looking at individuals and their differences and unique experiences. Feeling innately connected is kind of deep and something I think about too.

Life. Things growing. Things dying. Electrons. Space. Energy. Everything is connected and it is connected by this thing called 'life'. I like that feeling of being. It's very exciting.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lots of stuff. I think a lot about stuff to the point I think to much. I over think things a lot sometimes. But then other times I do things on the spur of the moment because I get a notion or something like that and I say screw thinking because I get tired of over-thinking. But i also don't like to be put on the spot and asked 'what are you thinking?' That phrase always seems to make my mind go blank in fear of trying to entertain said asker.

I tend to brood over and long for the past or think of different outcomes of things. I look at different choices I could have made and how people and myself were affected differently based on said decisions. Puts everything in perspective.

I also entertain the thought of everything in life being some sort of art.

How life would be if I were a pirate. (Actually I think about how my life would be different depending on different factors. If I was a different gender, if I was born in a different time period, if i had grown up somewhere different, if my siblings and I were born in a different order, etc etc. I come up with endless possibilities for parrallel universes.)

Sometimes I think about how infinite everything is and how small we really are on the grand scheme of things. The universe makes you ponder so much.

I like to try and make up what I think drives people to make the decisions they do, or what makes people live their life the way they do. I like thinking other people have motives that drive their decison making like I do.
On a typical Friday night I am
It's really hit or miss. My schedule is NEVER consistent. I could be working, I could be out with friends, I could be home sleeping or chilling with my friends. I don't really have the choice of being tied down to a set routine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really don't keep a lot to myself. I'm honest and usually unyielding. But I do have trouble talking about my feelings and emotions when I'm put on the spot.

I'm crazy, I'm a female. It comes with the territory.

I'm emotional in the sense that I have a wide range of emotions that I go through everyday. I also have many facets to my persona.

I'm a bit messy and unorganized. MY mind thinks a mile a minute so you might find half finished projects or tasks around my house. Also my art and style and decor are rather hodge podge but they make sense to me. Go figure :p

I'm ever-changing and evolving. There is a lot more to me than meets the eye.

I'm poly. LotusFreek is my fiancé. You will never replace him but I like to have fun playtime with friends. Swrdmaster6 is my boyfriend, he makes my world come alive. He is also irreplaceable. Key word there is friends though. I have a strict policy of friends before lovers.

I recently learned to play the guitar, its tough but fun!
You should message me if
you made it through reading my entire profile.

you want to chat, about anything really. But you have to have a head on your shoulders, I'm not going to respond to stupid come ons.

you have a brain and are not a sheeple. baaaah
The two of us