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My self-summary
NOTE: Please don't instant-message me until you've read my profile. Also, not interested in anyone who isn't located in the San Francisco Bay Area. (JULY 2014 UPDATE DO NOT WRITE ME IF YOU ARE NOT IN THE BAY AREA!!!!!!!!!! I AM NOT LOOKING FOR PEN PALS!!!!!!!!!)

You may think that it is flattering that individuals all over the world want to send messages saying "U R so Pretty" or "Hey Gorgeous" etc, however, as I PREVIOUSLY STATED ABOVE, I am NOT interested in ANY messages from ANYONE who is not located in the SAN FRANCISCO AREA, so PLEASE save your compliments for someone who can receive them in person.

I am a 33 year old "full-time," 24-7 trans-lady. Naturally feminine, I am passable and presentable. (Please don't ask me questions as to 'what is transgendered?' or etc, I'm not here to provide a FAQ . If you really are unclear, thats what wiki and google is for.) I am a writer, visual and performance artist, and occassional actress. I've been in a few short films. I've travelled all across america being on-stage performing original work. Have had some published work.

Though I am creative, intelligent and ambitious, I am also a lover of leisure, socializing, and going out. I dont really know how to cook, and though one day it miiiiight be nice to learn, I do enjoy eating out at nice resteraunts regularly. I also hang out at a variety of diverse bars enjoying conversation and laughter with friends, and strangers alike. Essentially, I am a fun loving girl who loves to laugh, have a conversation, and would classify myself as fairly intelligent, witty, and with a sharp eye.
What I’m doing with my life
I’m really good at
I consider myself great at conversation, holding a dialogue, and being somewhat entertaining. I'm fairly outgoing. Good storyteller. People seem to think I'm witty. I'm intuitive. Also really good at screen-shot-ing horrible OkCupid messages in order to make my fans laugh/kill all belief in humanity/reiterate romance is dead. (please don't add to the instagram feed)
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably how long my hair is. Then probably that I wear a lot of black.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books: Colors Insulting to Nature by Cintra Wilson.
Sexual Persona by Camille Paglia. Shock Treatment by Karen Finley. My Horizontal Life by Chelsea Handler. Lost Souls by Poppy Z. Brite

FAvorite Movies: Barfly , Sin City, Leaving LasVegas, Baise Moi, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Lady Vengeance, Gypsy 83, Cabaret.

Music: Tori Amos, Liz Phair, Hole, Luscious Jackson, Tricky, Veruca Salt, PJ Harvey, Portishead, Lana del Rey

Food: Ethiopian, Indian, Thai, Korean, Italian, Mexican, Spanish, Greek, Middle-eastern, Cajun, Southern/ Soul Food, Japanese.
Six things I could never do without
1. Spicy Food.

2. Makeup.

3. Bath-tubs.

4. Lots of sleep.

5. Sex.

6. Booze :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Romance, Feminism, Culture, Fashion, writing, food, travelling, shows.
On a typical Friday night I am
I dont differentiate much between Tuesday and Friday evenings. I could be inside watchinga movie or laying in bed finishing a book, or taking a two hour bath.... or I could be barhopping alone, meeting new people or going out to a show, or on a date.
You should message me if
You are an attractive in shape male ( I reiterate --- IN SHAPE male) who is serious about the potential of a long term relationship with an attractive passable and feminine trans girl like myself. I'm not interested in guys who are uncomfortable with the idea of dating a tranny. I'm college educated, attractive, social, clever, and ready for a long term relationship. If you feel the same, and are able to hold a conversation, have a strong libido, and enjoy going out to bars, resteruants,and shows, and are seriously tired of being single and interested in a quality relationship, then I am interested in talking to you.

If you have no photos in your profile, do not expect a response.

NOTE: one line messages or "wassup?" Or "ur pretty how u doin" or "how r u" emails will be ignored. I'm not interested in a guy who can't write a fucking paragraph to someone he's interested in.
The two of us