xtsy
35Portland, United States
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My self-summary
TERFS/SWERFS need not apply.

Alaskan Shy Wolf femme boy. I'm nonbinary, 1 1/2 years into hormonal transition.

Looking for people that are more on the "let's smoke weed and listen to records and make out/fuck around till 3am" train, and less on the bars full of drunk people on the weekend path. I'm 35 y'all, I'm too tired for that shit. 😂

I tend to prefer working class folk, or at least someone who may not be perfect with their queer politics, but they're trying. I'm not gonna be mad if you forget my pronouns, is what I'm getting at.

I grew up in Alaska, so I have a soft spot for redneck/country folk.

my needs are: Good hearted, open minded, down to adventure and DTF 😂😍

"Authentic" "Genuine" and "Vibrant" are also terms friends have used to describe me.

Basically, I dislike headgames and I'm not one to put on a facade.if i like something, i'll tell you.
What I’m doing with my life
Making art, and making jewelry. Life has been rough lately so I've been heavily crafting to keep my cool.

Studying, practicing, reading up on Tarot.

Scheming up ways to have a motorcycle by the time I'm 40.

Reading, lots and lots of reading for this bookworm.

Playing music, writing, painting, being generally a pervy weirdo

Planning my escape from this country.
I’m really good at
Steering clear of the drama train.

Making something from "nothing"

Dreaming of a nomadic life.

Touch. There's an element of power behind this set of big ol' piano hands, and i'm learning to wield it.

singing. making babies laugh. having a smart mouth.

Communicating my feelings and needs honestly.

Knowing when a song is worth pausing all conversation to absorb.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm not afraid to look them in the eye. And smile, usually.

That I'm genuine and enigmatic, and fully present in my gender fluidity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books-
Andrea gibson
Tom Robbins
jeanette winterson
ivan coyote
Pat califia
inga muscio
Rainer Maria Rilke
Neil Gaiman
Louise Erdrich
Ann Pachett
Christopher Moore
Louis De Bernies
Gabriel Garcia Marquez
books that combine prose and science. books about birds, flowers, songs and birdsong, crafts, secrets, gardens, islands. southern gothic, broken down cars and quiet murdering in the swamp.

Music:
Sleep
Motorhead
Tom Waits
Wanda Jackson
The Be Good Tanyas
Com Truise
The Sonics
Damien Jurado
Dick Dale
The Detroit Cobras
Andrew Jackson Jihad
cocorosie,
antony and the johnsons
joanna newsom
karen dalton
jackson c. frank
First Aid Kit

food- italian. sushi. Bbq. Pizza.

film- Miyazaki. Shortbus. Dr. Who. Firefly. 60s sexplotation. look up Doris Wishman. Bad Girls go to Hell, Faster Pussycat Kill! Kill!
John Waters
The Cohen Brothers

Lowbrow, Weirdo, and Pop Surrealism style art.
Six things I could never do without
-The memory of the sweater Jeff Magnum was wearing at the neutral milk hotel concert.

-sacred filth

-cumgiggles

- magic

-the combination of being genuine, intuitive, wacky, and passionate.

-the adaptability and shamelessness that provides an appreciation for 3am chili dogs from 7-11, and also the love for vegan cooking. i'm ready for anything.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to manifest my dreams of living in a cabin, with a truck and a motorcycle. Escaping the country to live the wild hillbilly life.

non-monogamy and making it work in my life.

writing. creating art.
On a typical Friday night I am
these days? Painting, writing music,reading, flirting, nothing terribly exciting
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I guess my 30s is a good time to develop an anime obsession? ;)
You should message me if
You like unconventional stoner femme boys who like kissing a whole lot
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