xtsy
34 Portland, United States
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My self-summary
They/their, please.

Femme Prince Shy Wolf creature with their heart on their sleeve...

Basically a big softy underneath this tuff dude shell.

Tiger Millionaire to strangers, Steven Universe to my friends. I'm a pretty goofy Andy Dwyer type, tbh.

Looking for:
-Adventure buddies not afraid of nerdy laughs and feelsfests.
-Hard working blue collar country kids,feminist genderfluid/trans folk,
riot grrls, witchy sisters, radical faeries,
anarchist punks, permaculture nature nerds

Good hearted, open minded. I like it.

"Authentic" "Genuine" and "Vibrant" are also terms friends have used to describe me.

Basically, I dislike headgames and I'm not one to put on a facade.if i like something, i'll tell you.
What I’m doing with my life
Studying, practicing, reading up on Tarot.

Scheming up ways to have a motorcycle by the time I'm 40.

Reading, lots and lots of reading for this bookworm.

Playing music, writing, painting, being generally a pervyqueer weirdo

Forming my own special kind of chaos magic

Throwing stones in the river, poking stuff with sticks.... finding art everywhere i go.

Building my dreams of a rad queer community on the land.
I’m really good at
Steering clear of the drama train. geez i don't miss my 20s.

Navigating the poverty waters with ease and a song.

Dreaming of a nomadic life.

Touch. There's an element of power behind this set of big ol' piano hands, and i'm learning to wield it.

singing. making babies laugh. having a smart mouth.

Finding the varied ways my partners receive happiness/feel loved, and slipping those things into their lives subtly.

Communicating my feelings and needs honestly.

Knowing when a song is worth pausing all conversation to absorb.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm not afraid to look them in the eye. And smile, usually.

That I'm genuine and enigmatic, and fully present in my gender fluidity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books-
Andrea gibson
Tom Robbins
jeanette winterson
ivan coyote
Pat califia
inga muscio
Rainer Maria Rilke
Neil Gaiman
Louise Erdrich
Ann Pachett
Christopher Moore
Louis De Bernies
Gabriel Garcia Marquez
books that combine prose and science. books about birds, flowers, songs and birdsong, crafts, secrets, gardens, islands. southern gothic, broken down cars and quiet murdering in the swamp.

Music:
Sleep
Motorhead
Tom Waits
Wanda Jackson
The Be Good Tanyas
Com Truise
The Sonics
Damien Jurado
Dick Dale
The Detroit Cobras
Andrew Jackson Jihad
cocorosie,
antony and the johnsons
joanna newsom
karen dalton
jackson c. frank
First Aid Kit

food- italian. sushi. Bbq. Pizza.

film- Miyazaki. Shortbus. Dr. Who. Firefly. 60s sexplotation. look up Doris Wishman. Bad Girls go to Hell, Faster Pussycat Kill! Kill!
John Waters
The Cohen Brothers

Lowbrow, Weirdo, and Pop Surrealism style art.
The six things I could never do without
-The memory of the sweater Jeff Magnum was wearing at the neutral milk hotel concert.

-sacred filth

-cumgiggles

- magic

-the combination of being genuine, intuitive, wacky, and passionate.

-the adaptability and shamelessness that provides an appreciation for 3am chili dogs from 7-11, and also the love for vegan cooking. i'm ready for anything.

(Except instant mashed potatoes. If the apocalypse happens, and that's my only food source, shoot me.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to manifest my dreams of living in a cabin, with a truck and a motorcycle. Escaping the city to live the wild hillbilly life.

non-monogamy and making it work in my life.

writing. creating art.
On a typical Friday night I am
these days? Painting, writing music, dancing, reading, flirting
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I cried over a lost baby duck I couldn't rescue.
So... There's that.

I am a self managing cry baby. IE I definitely have all the feels and I'm a tender creature, but I'm aware and capable of managing my own heart that's too big for my body ;)
You should message me if
You know the difference between transmisogyny and transphobia, and are actively calling that shit out and supporting our sisters.

You like unconventional, nonbinary femmes.
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