25 Flagstaff, United States
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
If you ask my name, specify if you want the short version or the long version. Spoilers: they're both "I don't know."

I'm genderqueer. If that's a problem move along. To be honest, I'm still trying to figure out the whole gender thing. Statistically speaking, I'm probably more queer than you, but if you're reading this you're already queer-er than most. I'm cool with polyamory and relationships best described as "it's complicated" as long as everyone's being open and honest and fully consenting.

I'm really shy and awkward. Once I get to know you it goes away (well, mostly) but let's be honest if we're meeting through okc and you need someone who's a talker, I'm not the person for you. I like listening to people talk more than doing the talking myself.

I'm a huge nerd. The kind of nerd who's been to multiple Harry Potter conventions and comic cons (including SDCC once) and who watches people play video games on youtube (yogscast yay). I've been a nerdfighter since 2007, if you know what that means.

I'm a bleeding heart liberal hippie atheist who believes in the radical notion that people don't deserve to die just because they're poor. Along with that, I'm a violently* intersectional feminist, working on unlearning all my own problematic behavior and beating compassion into the rest of society's head. It's not going well so far.

I'm an indoors body. I like my adventures to take place in my head (D&D) or at least in civilization (hide and seek in target). I'm trying to say my idea of a bad time is hiking. There's a reason humans invented indoors, and that reason is air conditioning.

*As violent as you can be as a pacifist with the muscles of a dead snail.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to clean it up.
I’m really good at
Sleeping, eating too many breadsticks at olive garden, getting lost in fantasy universes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
HP (books), LOTR (really any middle earth text), Discworld, anything in the whedonverse, pokemon (the main series games, occasionally the anime if i'm really bored).

Thai food, sushi, pizza.

I don't really give a fuck about music. I can listen to you talk about it but I couldn't hold a conversation to save my life. I mention this just because some people are VERY PASSIONATE about music and it's kinda weird to me, and I don't want you to get your hopes up about musicing.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How fucked up the world is and how frustrating it is that I can't fix it.
On a typical Friday night I am
On my computer, on tumblr.
You should message me if
you feel like it and you won't be offended if I don't respond. It's not you, it's the anxiety. Okay, it might also be you. I promise I'll try.