54Carmel, United States
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My self-summary
I have been divorced for over 10 years and I am ready to enjoy the company of someone special. I dislike drama, ( I get along with my ex well enough) and want to spend time with a positive minded guy who can roll with life's ups and downs with humor and compassion.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a counselor who works with kids and adults. I also teach at a university part time and teach Yoga classes when I can. I have two teenage children and now that they are getting closer to being on their own, it's time to find some time for me.
I hope I am somehow making a difference even in a small way. Emerson's Success poem is kind of a guiding principle for me.
I’m really good at
putting people at ease, staying pretty even keel, working hard and keeping a positive attitude
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and my outgoing personality. People tell me that I have never met a stranger.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Game of Thrones series, 5 Love Languages, Yoga Journal, Seinfeld, Entourage, Breaking Bad, House of Cards and Homeland. I love movies ~ anything other than horror movies- theater (Hamilton!!), live music, and I love when guys cook!
Six things I could never do without
My kids and family
Humor and Open mindedness
Downtime and dancing to live music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
People. Why do humans make things so complicated? Be kind, smile, treat people the way we want to be treated. Seems simple.

I try to focus on appreciating what I have while trying to carve out the best future I can. I would love to relocate south near a beach or maybe the mountains or a lake. Or even have a second home.

I also think about winning the lottery......
On a typical Friday night I am
Very happy it is Friday! What I do depends on the day. It may be time to quietly unwind or time to get out and kick the weekend off with some fun with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am liberal. Politics have never been a topic people talk openly about. But in light of the current climate, I am willing to be open about my thoughts to save us time.

I am concerned about the environment, education, women's issues and I see all of them suffering.

It's important to me to find someone who is aligned with certain philosophies and politics have become a way to figure that out. I hate the polarization we have now and hope we find a middle ground. But I don't want to date someone who I am fundamentally at odds with. I'm not looking to debate. I'm just sharing this personal detail to save everyone time.
You should message me if
My friends wrote this part for me:

You are an attractive, emotionally available liberal thinker with nice arms, who likes to cook and fix things. If you are looking to meet a curvy, intelligent, nurturing, sexy woman.

I am not into casual sex, guys under 40, smokers, Fox news watchers or players. If you still support Trump, please keep moving to the next profile. We won't have enough in common. We won't change each others' mind - and that's fine. But we don't have to date. Peace.
The two of us