46 Phoenixville, United States
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My self-summary
Hey, I want to thank everyone for the nice messages. I am back in a relationship now. I am still here because I have made a couple friends.
Oy vey. I like sushi. I like wine. I'm as comfortable in a 5 star restaurant as in a dive bar, but I will drink wine in the dive bar...and laugh when they dust off the wine glass. I've traveled all over the country and am an East Coast girl. I can pump my own gas but don't believe I should have to. I wear Danskos in the winter and Tevas in the summer. I make a mean cheesecake. I enjoy talking religion and politics with strangers. I like Mormons coming to the door and finding common ground with them. I'm a Unitarian Universalist and a Socialist. October is my favourite month because of politics and the Phillies...and the crisp weather. Sometimes I think in haiku. I love the Jersey Shore and the Southwest. I love NYC. Cheap dates are a complete turn-off. Traffic doesn't upset me. I've been known to be pretentious and I say, "hahhahahahaah".....but perhaps there is some truth there. I am obsessed with cats. I'm silly and sarcastic and have a soft spot for squirrels (and alliteration). I'm weird and can be nerdy. I was an English major but can't stand literature that just blahblahblah's along.

Even though I may be "middle aged" I feel as if my life has just started over - like I've just graduated college again. I feel like the world is open...and I'm ready to find someone who wants to share in these experiences. If you're a positive person; if the first snowfall of the season still takes your breath away; if you know that no matter how old we get we can still find new things to challenge and inspire us...perhaps you may be that person.

What I’m doing with my life
I am a massage therapist. Prior to that, I was working in the cat rooms at a no-kill animal shelter. I am a hands-on healer of all creatures.

I'm raising my boys to become responsible men (I hope!).
I’m really good at
cat whispering
making people feel comfortable
The first things people usually notice about me
My's gorgeous :D
I'm better looking than in the pictures.
I'm shorter than people think...apparently I "type like I'm tall" Seriously, though...I'm short. hair on my clothes? :P

And hey guys...check over on the side bar. See how it says I'm of "average" body type? Yeah, I'm of "average" body type. That doesn't mean I'm huge. That means I'm average. Nothing to be afraid of. It means I'm probably the fattest person in Boulder, CO and the skinniest person in Jackson, MS. You know...average. I have lots of (recent) full body pics for you to look at. No surprises here.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This space left blank. People (including me) judge others by what music, movies, tv (if they watch tv), etc. they like, and so I do not wish to be judged that way. I will say I enjoyed the movie Secretary greatly.
The six things I could never do without
My boys
Cats! Lots of cats
Compassion, love, and understanding
Flannel pajamas
Spell check
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why I can't sleep. How many cats are too many cats. If killing ants in the house really counts toward my bad karma.

Should I adopt another cat? My older son says 2 kittens = 1 cat. I tell him that 2 kittens will grow up into 2 cats. He doesn't see that far in the future. I wonder if a single mom with 2 boys and 5 cats (I now have 3, if I adopt 2 kittens I will eventually have 5) will be a "single" mom for quite a long time.

Is there a "crazy cat man" out there for me? :)

Maybe I should get a dog. A big, lazy dog.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my boys, at a local bar enjoying one or two or ten adult beverages, going to bed early because I can, enjoying First Friday, on a date with you (how's that for cheezy?) yaddayaddayadda....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Oh I don't understand why people freak out about this question. They're not asking for your PIN or how many sexual partners you've had.

I think grey in facial hair and crows feet are sexy.

One of my profile pics here is "internet famous" and was a meme.
You should message me if
You know who John, Paul, George and Ringo are.
We can discuss the importance of 42 and why we should always have a towel.
You are NOT allergic to cats.