I enjoy my life quite well, but I'm looking for a woman to share it with. With my alternative lifestyle, that's a bit of a challenge. Why am I mentioning this up front? Because some women have a problem with this lifestyle, and it can break a relationship. No, I'm not gay -- not that there's anything wrong with that. Anybody who thinks otherwise is paying too much attention to stereotypes.
Most of my feminine wardrobe (size 16) consists of everyday casual dresses (nothing provocative -- well, not very). When I come home from work, I throw on a casual dress or a set of feminine sweats to help me unwind. I like to crossdress and go out occasionally in the evening on weekends. I've even riden on the Metro several times in femme. When I'm not in a dress, I look like any average guy. (We crossdressers are everywhere. Your co-worker or neighbor may be one.)
I'm usually quiet. I tend to be an introvert. While I enjoy the company of a small group of people from time to time, I like having my own space. According to the Myers-Briggs test, I have an ISTJ personality, and the Myers-Briggs description of ISTJ people is almost a perfect description of me. I'm very independent-minded and do my own thing, and tend not to be too worried about what people think about me. I have never felt troubled by my desire to crossdress or thought there was something wrong with me. I'm analytical, thoughtful, and have a calm temperment. I'm also gentle, down-to-earth, very open-minded, and loyal.
To sum it up, I'm an introvert, independent-minded, atheist crossdresser. Pretty unique, don't you think?
Every year for the past several years, I've gone on a far-off sightseeing trip, either overseas or out west. The focus may either be history or nature's wonders. I've traveled all over the U.S., including Alaska. I've been to France, Spain, Portugal, Italy, Austria, Hungary, Czech Republic, Turkey, England, Mexico, Switzerland, and Egypt. In 2013, I went to China. I have many places to go on my travel "bucket list", including Africa, India, Peru and Australia, just to name a few.
I'm not into social media. I'm on Facebook only a few times a week, and even then only for a few minutes. I'm not on Twitter or any of the other social media sites. But I do communicate by email a lot.
My employment provides me with a great salary and benefits. I work as a law librarian, which goes well with my geeky side. I'm financially secure. The hours are about 9-5, and I'm not a workaholic.
I like the occasional visit to the country, but country life is not for me.
So, don't let my age bother you.
P.S. My photo is from March 2015.
(b) Movies: True Lies, Contact, To Wong Foo, Better Than Chocolate, Some Like It Hot, Imagine Me And You
(c) Rock. Can't stop dancing to that 70s and 80s music.
(d) Television: The Simpsons, Scandal, NCIS, The Blacklist, Agents of Shield, Once Upon a Time.
Most of my movies and TV shows are comedy, action, spy thrillers, political thrillers, or science fiction. I'm also a Trekkie.
P.S. No men please. You're just wasting your time.