64 San Mateo, United States
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My self-summary
I'm too clever (but only by half) so if you can provide the other half, that would be great. Ditto that I'm a great listener -- exceptional, really -- so if you happen to be a fabulous raconteur, you've got a great audience in moi. Other than that? I'm profoundly intuitive, warm, kind, generous (sometimes, to a fault) and unendingly supportive of you doing what you want to do - and going where you want to go. I might even go along, should you ask. :) I'm creative on multiple fronts....known for jumping in feet first and figuring out how to swim later. So far,I've managed to keep myself afloat...but the dog-paddling is getting old. I am the strong/sensitive type which, I admit, can be confusing for those who have only known me one way, to suddenly be faced with my other half. I had early inclinations to have a life in the theater..I'm still intending to make it some capacity. I've had a satisfying career helping people express their authenticity in myriad ways. It goes on. As do I -- with hope of finding a man with whom I can resonate in head/heart/guts/parts. Haven't settled yet. Not gonna start now. But it would be lovely if you could show up. Soon. Got that?
What I’m doing with my life
Realizing that The Time is NOW; and that carpe diem has never been more apt. I don't have a bucket list, but I'm thinking I might need to get a bucket.
I’m really good at
Cutting to the chase.
Telling the truth.
Acknowledging what's so.
Listening to what people say.
FInding where it hurts.
Helping to release the pain. (physical, more than emotional, but both are true).
The first things people usually notice about me
that I look like someone else they know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Currently, I can't get enough of The Moth.
I would feel I hit the big time to win at a Moth event.
(I didn't win, but I did come in 3rd at my first (and not ready)
attempt. I'm going back in!!!!!!!)

I have bookshelves (filled) in every room of the house so
naming a favorite is impossible.
I tend toward non fiction, but I did complete
the steig larson trilogy as well as 4 /5 GOTs.

These days, most of my reading time
goes to the NY'er/Inc.
Favorite movies?
An equally difficult task...
recently, I loved Brooklyn and
Spotlight. Carol ... not so much.
I skipped Star Wars, but
would have gone if you wanted to see it.

on my all-time fave list:
B'fast at Tiffany's
Last Tango in Paris
The Philadelphia Story
Groundhog Day.
(a strange list, I realize)

Best thing I saw (not that recently)
at the theater: Love & Information
which I thought was brilllllliant!

I. Love. Musicals.
there, I've said it.

I am writing a musical.
(very slowly and w/desperate need
of a collaborator.)
(know anyone?)
Jazz (brazilian/cuban beats, esp.)
blues sax
Cole Porter
anything blues-y and or
with a great dance beat
Food...anything healthy/fresh
mostly veggie
east coast swing
or any kind of dancing
The six things I could never do without
authentic conversation.
live performance.
danceable music.
heart to heart hugs.
common sense.
ocean breezes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
where am I going to go when the bay area becomes
unlivable and/or G-d forbid!!!!!!!Trump becomes...
I can't even say it. {elected} Noooooooooooooo!
On a typical Friday night I am
see "what I am doing with my life."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I strongly resist reading/writing profiles.

If your profile has a picture of you on a motorcycle,
if you are a devout christian, have a gun in your home,
or think any of the current republican contenders
would be a good choice to lead our country, I'm so
not interested.
You should message me if
write me and I'll tell you