64 San Mateo, United States
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My self-summary
So I just took the Dewey Color test and it rates me as a "creative" --nonconforming, impulsive, expressive, romantic, intuitive, sensitive and emotional. And I'd have to say, it's quite accurate. I definitely follow my own drummer, which is a little frustrating because my drummer seems to have a lousy sense of direction. However, I long ago realized that I'm happier being wherever it is that I end up rather in some other place I try to get myself because everyone else seems to want to be there. I am highly inventive. Not always great at following through. However, I do have a very grounded practical side which keeps me from following every flitting flight of fancy. My intuition is quite strong -- not just in an esp sense -- but in my ability to appreciate who people are. It can be disarming. Our culture encourages us to create shiny personas. It can be disturbing when someone sees beyond the shell and speaks to who you really are. Or, it just might be nice to be able to put down the shield and be seen and appreciated for your authentic self. I am energetically very sensitive. The other nite, I went to a yoga class where they were playing tibetan bowls/gongs and it took me two days to recover. The vibrations just knocked me out. I have a very dry wit...but I can also be very silly. Love to dance. (Any kind of dance.) Movies, theater, any kind of live performance. Sign moi up. I've got my own biz, my own house and very little baggage. (Although way too many books & magazines.) I'm at a point where I'm open to change. So...if you're in a creative mood buzz in. Who knows? We can probably come up with something...
What I’m doing with my life
Realizing that The Time is NOW; and that carpe diem has never been more apt. I don't have a bucket list, but I'm thinking I might need to get a bucket.
I’m really good at
Cutting to the chase.
Telling the truth.
Acknowledging what's so.
Listening to what people say.
FInding where it hurts.
Helping to release the pain. (physical, more than emotional, but both are true).
The first things people usually notice about me
that I look like someone else they know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Currently, I can't get enough of The Moth.
I would feel I hit the big time to win at a Moth event.
(I didn't win, but I did come in 3rd at my first (and not ready)
attempt. I'm going back in!!!!!!!)

I have bookshelves (filled) in every room of the house so
naming a favorite is impossible.
I tend toward non fiction, but I did complete
the steig larson trilogy as well as 4 /5 GOTs.

These days, most of my reading time
goes to the NY'er/Inc.
Favorite movies?
An equally difficult task...
recently, I loved Brooklyn and
Spotlight. Carol ... not so much.
I skipped Star Wars, but
would have gone if you wanted to see it.

on my all-time fave list:
B'fast at Tiffany's
The Philadelphia Story
Groundhog Day.
(a strange list, I realize)

Best thing I saw (not that recently)
at the theater: Love & Information
which I thought was brilllllliant!

I. Love. Musicals.
there, I've said it.

I am writing a musical.
(very slowly and w/desperate need
of a collaborator.)
(know anyone?)
Jazz (brazilian/cuban beats, esp.)
blues sax
Cole Porter
anything blues-y and or
with a great dance beat
Food...anything healthy/fresh
mostly veggie
east coast swing
or any kind of dancing
The six things I could never do without
authentic conversation.
live performance.
danceable music.
heart to heart hugs.
common sense.
ocean breezes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
where am I going to go when the bay area becomes
unlivable and/or G-d forbid!!!!!!!Trump becomes...
I can't even say it. {elected} Noooooooooooooo!
On a typical Friday night I am
see "what I am doing with my life."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I strongly resist reading/writing profiles.

If your profile has a picture of you on a motorcycle,
if you are a devout christian, have a gun in your home,
or think any of the current republican contenders
would be a good choice to lead our country, I'm so
not interested.
You should message me if
write me and I'll tell you