zarfilg
41 Toronto, Canada
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My self-summary
European, bit of a mutt, well cultured, well read, and I would say I am a very multidimensional person. I am open to just about anything, short of spending too much time with ignorant people. I am very even tempered and rational thus I hate to fight and argue about nonsensical things.I have enough stress in my life as it is, I don't want my dating/relationship life to add more. If you get off on drama, please move on :)

I randomly found this site and thought it would be fun to try it out. I am sensible enough to not hold my breath as I think this method of meeting people is a wee bit contrived. Considering that chemistry can only be really established in person it would seem a lot of this is academic.

Having said all that one never knows, I’m quite sure this beats dredging your local bar/club scene - not like I ever tried it to be honest …to meet someone that is - never was my thing. Always thought the whole picking up in clubs thing was too night at the ruxburyish; although I do have to give props to all the girls who ever approached me – you guys seem to do it so much more tastefully :)

So yes I like “real” girls with substance…Yes, yes I’m quite sure all of you who are reading this are in fact quite real (metaphysical philosophy and quantum mechanics aside ;) ) I shall try and explain it without getting into cheesy clichés about being down to earth blah blah.

Interests make you real , hopefully something beyond reality tv, tmz, and your hair and make-up. Opinions make you real; nurtured through humble objectivity and critical thinking. Self-awareness makes you shine to the keen eye – filled with peacefully accepted frailty and proud acknowledgement of strengths. Truth, honesty, and a generous spirit make your reality brilliant.

I cannot rightfully continue this without venturing into the monkey side of my xy chromosome affliction. Yes I said it, physical attraction is important. Whoever thinks otherwise is ……mostly wrong! :) Ok it has a short shelf life, fine…. but it is important! I’m a guy, my psychoevolutionary monkey side responds to certain physical ratio’s on a woman, round oval shapes etc . It is what it is, I’m ok with it.. in fact I kinda think it’s neat.

I’m rambling a novel here….wrap up time. I hope that by talking about you I have managed to tell a little about myself, if you want more details just msg me.
What I’m doing with my life
running a business
I’m really good at
tennis :)
The first things people usually notice about me
eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
really, too many to list, it would be an injustice!
The six things I could never do without
- ebook reader - the sacrilege I know - long live the trees...and err well free books!!
- are dogs things?
-the sun - love it, we don't get enough of it in this part of the world
- water, no not just to drink
-sushi, one of my favs
-car,hard to get around this place without one.
-nice wine, helps a lot of things make a lot more sense on occasion :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
tell you after you have a drink or two :)
On a typical Friday night I am
resting :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a slave to my consciousness
You should message me if
witty banter? truthful insights? a laid back drink or coffee? nothing too committal. After all, having never met, we might not like eachother.
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