47Tijuana, Mexico
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My self-summary
Life is too short. So I am going to lay it all out there and see what happens.

First things first, you must know that due to my being diabetic and a spinal injury. I require an injection of medicine into my penis to achieve a functional erection. This erection can last up to 2~3+ hours depending on how much I am enjoying myself. (I essentially turn into a human dildo) :-p

Why did I throw that out there first? Because I am a healthy male and to me, sex is an important part of any adult relationship. I am not looking for just sex. (Finding someone to just have sex with is easy.) Finding someone that I enjoy spending the time with and have chemistry who is *worth* sticking a needle in my penis for, now that is not easy.

Still with me? :-D

Hi! I go by Joe or Zen. (my friends call me that interchangeably)
I live in Las Vegas (for now).
I enjoy riding motorcycles and value good food.
I don’t drink or smoke. (I don’t mind if others do)
I live life by three simple rules: No Drama, No Drugs, and No Means No
I value intelligent conversation and hope to eventually find a true sapiosexual.
I have two masters and one bachelor’s degrees. (engineering, MBA, & photography)
I am an engineer, professional photographer, restauranteur, and business consultant.
I have a son, he is my world. (I am not looking for a mother for him, he has one)
I do a lot of work with the adult industry, yes, I see naked people in sexual situations all the time.

I like to have good times and great adventures.
"Live as if you'd drop dead in ten seconds"

I am looking for a friend, someone that I enjoy hanging out with.
I am looking for chemistry, someone that i want to be intimate with
I am looking for a compadre, someone that I can explore with.

With that said, I am not necessarily looking for a typical relationship. Nothing about my life is typical. I need someone that is open minded and understanding.

I have been married for 17+ years. We have an open marriage and yes, she will know about you. BUT, this does NOT mean you will be dating us both. We are NOT a package deal.

I am not a jealous person on any level and would prefer the same.

I’m open to all types, if you’ve gotten this far and haven’t moved on… then yes, I’d like to talk to you. (send me a flirt, a favorite, or whatever and I’ll start the dialog)

I live in a different world than most, if you think you want to be a part of it, let me know.

If you’re curious about what an injected penis is like or want to ask me questions about how that all works, drop me a note.
What I’m doing with my life
I love my life
I am an Engineer
I am a Photographer
I own several businesses
I program microcontrollers for fun
I love my Ducati Diavel Strada
I'm having a blast
I’m really good at
Anything that I put my mind to.
Expressing myself.
Anything electronic & digital.
Shibari/Kinbaku. (traditional)
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair and the idea that I look like a native american.
(I'm not - Major points if you figure out my ethnicity.
Hint: I am first generation american on both sides of my family.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Author: Robert A. Heinlein
Movies: Bicentennial Man, Memoirs of a Geisha, Star Trek (2009), Love Actually
I am a movie buff, I like pretty much everything from action to romantic comedy. I'm just not into Horror but I am a sucker for chick flicks
Music: R&B & Hip Hop, 80's, Alternative, World
Band: Depeche Mode (see below funny story)
Food: Japanese & Persian I am a foodie, anything not spicy is good for me
Shows: House, Fringe, So you think you can Dance, Amazing Race, Stargate, Farscape, Star Trek, Game of Thrones

Funny story about the music I like: My cousin, I have not seen in years, and I were getting re-acquainted. He asks, "What kind of music do you like?". I answer, "Hip Hop, R&B, Old School". He goes, "That's cool, what's your favorite band?". I go, "Depeche Mode" He had quite the puzzled look on his face. Now you do as well. :)
Six things I could never do without
my son
my life
my glasses
my passport
my camera
the internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How the world looks through my eyes.
On a typical Friday night I am
This varies wildly. Can be anything from spending time with my son, going to a movie, eating at a good restaurant, going to a sex party, gaming, writing code, or some combination of the above.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask away.... I haven't found anything that I'm NOT willing to admit.
You should message me if
If you're open minded, intelligent, sexual, and friendly.
I'm very open about what I am looking for.
(Open in the broad sense)
I'd like to find some friends and good conversation.
Sex is easy to find.
(of course, if you think that's our hook you can still drop me a note)

You must like motorcycles....!

If you find what I've written so far interesting, definitely send me a message.

If you claim to be a sapiosexual, prove it.
The two of us