Meeting new people in new situations, working on myself while working on my relationships (and all that may mean), fighting for the love of the gender non-binary, non-monogamy, intersectionality and general radical love.
I have a boyfriend and we have a home full of food experiments, instruments, a decent home bar and an adorable dog named cheddar. This means that if you are not interested in or capable of dating a person who has a primary then it just won't work.
Trying to plan fundraisers for animal rescue, any suggestions?
Riding my bike, cocktail geekery, embroidering naked women, smutty drawings and feminist slogans on whatever clothing is lying around, reading too many books at any given time while rushing to finish them so I can find someone to share it with, practicing guitar and never playing in front of anyone, fermenting foods and figuring out how to do it better.
Stress reading. Seriously, when I'm stressed I'll go through a book a day.
If I had to guess, and depending on the time of year, tattoos, freckles or the fact that I started checking out their dog way before I noticed them.
Tom Waits, Johnny Cash, Neutral Milk Hotel, Bob Dylan, Lou Reed, Thee Oh Sees, Velvet Underground, FIDLR, Shannon and the Clams, Screaming Females, Nobunny, The Cramps, Gooch Palms, Dave Von Ronk, Townes Van Zandt, Blind Willi Johnson, Sam Cooke, Sarah Vaughn, Bessie Smith, Billie Holliday, Vaughan Williams, Debussy, Shostakovich, Bach, Ravel.
I terribly miss the mexican food back home.
I'm big on baking but don't enjoy eating baked goods.
I much prefer honeydew to cantaloupe.
Movement (sex, biking, dancing, etc)
Learning (from books or people)
Food (introduce me to something new, please)
Lived experiences (put down yer damn phone)
Family (blood or chosen)
Whether or not the fact that I'm unwilling to give up meat despite my work with animals is morally reprehensible.
The gender binary, kink, desire vs reality, polyamory/consensual nonmonogamy/open relationships, intersectionality, cocktails.
Plus weekends are for suckers.
Want to chat while baking a pie and/or drinking some whiskey.
Want to geek out about geeky shit. Listening to people discuss things they are passionate about makes me happy.
'I like aggressive women with a nerdy vibe.' There's a lot of truth in that....