zjapa
31Lincoln, United States
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My self-summary
I've considered myself into polyamory since 2010. It fits with my philosophy of enjoying life and people. I don't want to deny myself experiences, and the opportunity for fulfilling relationships with other people. I'm legally married, co-parenting a 3-yo with a former partner.

Currently hoping to meet excellent people in Lincoln that are either parents or very enthusiastic about hanging out with toddlers.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I'm working for an automotive dealership. I was a car salesman, and then a Finance Manager, and now I'm somewhere in the management game. *Now* you trust me, right? :P I'm always learning, and sales is a great fit for my personality. I strive to bring integrity into an industry that's generally looked upon unfavorably... I find it enjoyable, and I'm good at it, so it works out pretty well! Also, paperwork paperwork paperwork.

I like almost anything having to do with the outdoors. I was in a frisbee league, I really want to play soccer again, I used hike or go trail-running every week in CA, and I'm trying to make time for lifting and maybe swimming.

Lincoln is so bike-friendly! I haven't been on my bike in far too long, but this city is rapidly changing that (much to the joy of my local bike shop), which had been fun. Also, I'm sore everywhere...
I’m really good at
Making people laugh, listening, hugging (I'm told), imitating people, being a smartass.
The first things people usually notice about me
The fact that I'm a goofball, who is pretty outgoing, almost always smiling, and usually walking a dog - I adopted a rescue named Banshee. Oddly, despite her name, she is almost *always* silent... Also, nine times out of ten I'm either walking with a child, or pushing a stroller. Dad lyfe?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Farenheit 451, Animal Farm, The Science of Fear, Switching Time, Wired magazine.

Pulp Fiction, Get Shorty, Snatch, Dazed and Confused, Fight Club, Dark Knight (the whole trilogy, really), Out Cold, That Thing You Do!, Legends of the Fall, Super Troopers, The King's Speech... I could literally fill pages with movies I like. I can also quote most of them unnaturally well.

I don't have cable, but Netflix comes through with Breaking Bad, Dexter, and The Long Way Down.

Music is pretty eclectic - anything from AC/DC, White Stripes, OK Go, The Beatles, Bullets and Octane, lately the Black Keys, Jack White's new solo stuff and Cage The Elephant... I stick mostly to rock, but I can listen to almost anything.

Food is goooood and I'll try just about anything
Six things I could never do without
The happiness of those close to me
some kind of vehicle - unfortunately had to sell the motorcycle when we moved from CA.
A way to keep in touch with friends- I tend to be the one that randomly calls people out of the blue to catch up
a job - I would go crazy without something to keep me focused (edit: I do NOT need a job to keep busy! I was a stay-at-home dad for a month, and it's great! I didn't want to go back to work...)
open space - there is SO MUCH to see. I will never be able to complete it all...
ethnic food. and american food. food in general. I like it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the human mind - I was a psych major, and one of the things that I enjoy most about acting is trying to figure out other peoples' minds. I'm not always very good at it, but I find it fascinating

I also fantasize about going to sleep at 9pm and getting 10 hours of sleep. It never happens though. I have much more important things to do than go to sleep at 9, but it's still fun to think about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Since I'm new to Lincoln, I don't yet have a typical Friday night. Being a parent to a toddler kind of limits options, that is, unless everyone you know *also* goes to sleep at 8:30pm...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have never eaten brussel sprouts
You should message me if
If we're a high percentage match, we should be friends. Seriously.

I know precisely three people in Lincoln. Get in on the ground floor! :P
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